It is said that people in love have zero IQ, what do you think about that? The most important thing is that it is easy to get back to peace after burning. Maybe a little cooling down will make it burn longer. You’ve heard of the “process” of falling in love – the “hot period,” the “settling in period,” and the “settling out period. “, “stable period”? If you and he are in the first 3 months of the relationship, is it possible to let yourself be immersed in the hot love without worrying too much about it? It’s better to try to be sensible than to be recklessly committed.
1. Watch a blockbuster movie with friends
Since some time, dinner and a movie has become the most classic part of dating, as if you have to ask your lover to watch a new movie with you as soon as it comes out. In fact, different movies are suitable for watching with different people, such as those simple-minded fashion blockbusters, is not more suitable for a group of girlfriends to drool over the film’s fancy clothes and beautiful bags? Or those testosterone-filled films that showcase beautiful flesh concentration camps, would it be a little awkward to watch with him? Not to mention those art films that he may find boring as hell, and maybe you will have a fight after watching them together because of the difference of opinion. In short, doing things together that you both really like can make your relationship warm up. Of course, it’s not impossible to change each other’s tastes, but if the other person really isn’t interested, why force it?
2. Don’t rush to make sure he’s the one in the first three months of your relationship
Perhaps you’ve heard the superstition that you shouldn’t tell anyone before 3 months into a new relationship because God will be jealous and take your good fortune back! In the early stages of love, you inevitably see the advantages of each other, perhaps you do not really know him well enough, but the light of love will make women extra attractive, do not waste your light! Peach blossom luck is usually a group of a group to come, if at this time there are still people to introduce you to the new opposite sex, or you meet other people, do not rush to announce their own flowers. Perhaps you will think you are not the kind of person who can play the relationship game, men are interested in a woman never presuppose that she is single. Having a few more men around who are attracted to you will make a woman happier physically and mentally, and more confident.
3. Don’t check his cell phone OR phone unless he asks for it
Never answer the phone for him unless he asks for it, and the appropriate way to be thoughtful is to pass the phone to his ear. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. But these do not mean that he is hiding or does not love you anymore. If you feel ostracized and isolated, you can let him down by meeting his friends, and when you gradually integrated into his circle, the phone or whatever is not so mysterious to you. Of course, you can also use to let him occasionally answer the phone for you to influence his actions. But then you’d have to be more careful yourself.
4. It’s not a good idea to leave personal items at his house too early
When should you leave your toothbrush at his house? It’s a delicate matter of timing. Many habits are formed in the first 3 months of a relationship, such as who goes to sleep at whose house, who sleeps on which side of the bed, and who is the one who often needs to accommodate and wait for the other person. If you don’t want your relationship to fall into a rut, don’t let these habits form too early. If your first night happens in your home, then the third night might as well be somewhere else.
5. Don’t turn into a virtuous wife and mother too early in the hot period
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6. Associated with having a child? tells you that he is the Mr. Right, and it’s as if you’ve already seen what your wedding photos will look like. You wish you could quickly turn into a hot mom and then you could leave footprints on the beach together in your mother-son and couple outfits? Wake up, you don’t even know where you’re going tonight. The dopamine of love makes women more fantasy-rich, so put your imagination to work on making romantic dates and sex. Control your urge to talk endlessly about the future. Nothing makes a man run away more than planning for the future too soon.
7. Give yourself some space
If his timing doesn’t fit, does the vacation have to be postponed? There are many beautiful places in the world that you should go together to enjoy, you can’t go to Tokyo together, but you can go to Paris together! So, don’t leave yourself with regrets just because you don’t have the right time. You will find that the trip without him instead makes you more willing to interact in other ways, and you can still enjoy the pleasures of a single woman’s outing. For example, having a stranger offer to help you put your bags in the luggage compartment; for example, being able to ask handsome, exotic men for directions; for example, being able to bloodbath until the last second!
8. Proper vinegar is a spice
Your jealousy is most justified when you’re hot. Showing your jealousy in a joking way once in a while will give him a better idea of your bottom line and that you care about him. If you find something substantial that really bothers you, you should instead press on and see the situation through.
9. Stay in touch with your close friends
No matter how sweet your relationship is, don’t ignore your best friends around you. They want you to be happy, of course, but it’s really embarrassing for singles to hear all the stories about you and me. Just listening to your sweet has been enough to be stimulated, if you quarrel also when your trash can, God let single women still how to have time to find their emotional home? And in this year where everyone is left, it’s as if the happy people have an obligation to take on the job of matchmaking, to find dates for their girlfriends from your side of him so that you don’t look heterosexual and inhuman.
Immersed in love, you feel like everything in the world is so beautiful, and that’s the magic of love. However, every thing has a downside, and being sensibly in love is what makes you see and feel confident to fix it. How’s that? Doesn’t sound too bad, does it?