“Leftover women,” is a new title given to those older women who are called They are called “singletons”. The Japanese call them “women who have been thrown away by men,” or “3S women”: Single, Seventies, Stuck.
In 2009, according to data, the number of “leftover women” in Beijing exceeded 550,000, and that’s just a conservative figure. An article in the Straits Times stated that the number of leftover women in Beijing had reached 800,000, the highest in the world. Psychological studies have also found that compared to “leftover men”, “leftover women” are under more pressure and are more likely to experience psychological crises because they are considered “leftover” after the age of 28, while Men can be tolerated until the age of 35.
The older you are, the harder it is to get married?
Is it true that the older a girl is, the harder it is to get married? The answer is undoubtedly: yes. But are young girls more likely to marry well than older women? Easier to get happy? The answer is definitely: largely no.
The biggest mistake in Chinese society’s view of marriage is that it incorrectly assesses the role, meaning, and status of marriage in life. In the eyes of many people, marriage and children are the necessary path of life. Especially for a woman, it doesn’t matter how good you are, but it’s not right if you’re not married. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Rather, the truth is that many people overestimate the gains of marriage and the losses of being unmarried, but greatly underestimate the risks of marriage and the investment you make in it. Many people think that marriage is just that static bit of getting married, but the truth is that marriage is a dynamic process, which means that it is never a quick fix, but rather a process that requires a lot of cost and effort on your part to maintain to work on. And what’s even more frightening is that the final outcome of the marriage does not depend only on yourself, but also on the other person with whom you entered the marriage. This means that marriage is not really a benefit, but a responsibility.
On the contrary, according to many people above, unless you’re beautiful, you’re awesome, and you’re rich, you might have a chance to get married when you’re older. But if you are just an ordinary person, you must find a way to marry yourself at the right age, otherwise it will be very difficult later. But the truth is, those who are not very capable themselves, their marriages are more likely to be unhappy, because their own ability to control the marriage and the ability to stop a failed marriage is worse. So the more such people are, the more cautious they should be when entering a marriage.
How single women can fill themselves with the value of being loved
< strong>1. Quit being a princess
Many women think that men should accommodate themselves to everything, treating their suitors as guanyin soldiers and transforming themselves into little princesses who are loved by millions. I don’t know that such behavior will only set a trap for myself and end up with a princess disease, but may not have a princess life, and will end up with a scolding, further and further down the road of singleness ……
< strong>2. Keep learning and enriching yourself
Be constantly reading books, learning new skills, and enriching your life. Some single women always feel bored and have nothing to do when they are not in love. Once this type of woman falls in love, her boyfriend becomes the center of her life and loses herself. In case she fails to have a lover, she will only make herself fall deep into the pain of losing her love and cannot extricate herself.
3.Work hard
Women who have the means are the most attractive. When you fancy a bag, fancy a pair of shoes, fancy a ring, you don’t need to let the men who like you pay for you, you can pay for yourself. You don’t have to choose a man because of too many financial factors either.
4, Exercise
Exercise keeps you in shape. It can keep an individual in better shape and younger.
What I said
I love what Jennifer said A quote from Jennifer: “There will always be people asking, “Are you married? Do you want a baby? I don’t know myself. I don’t have this life planning list of ‘what has to be done when,’ and I don’t think if those things aren’t done, if I’m not a mom, I’m going to lose some of my femininity or my value as a woman. I’ve produced a lot of things and I feel like I’m the mother of a lot of things, and I think it’s unfair to put pressure on women with childbirth.”
All of you single women out there share this.