“Ex-girlfriend” is a topic that many people avoid talking about. But today we’re going to talk about his ex-girlfriend. Once watched a movie, the movie has a plot I was particularly impressed: the wedding bride and groom were set up ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend table, the opening, the bride and groom were speaking, are thanking the presence of the exes, the scene is as awkward. But the movie to the movie, life to life, in real life, and how many pairs can calmly break up, and afterwards can calmly face each other? The actual fact is that the actual person is not only a good person, but also a good person. The following are the situations that most people will encounter, and I’ll summarize them for you.
Situation #1: Prejudging his old lover as a saboteur, an imaginary enemy, and a firebrand with her.
Analysis: This will only result in him being caught in the middle. If you truly love him, you should respect the person he has loved, but of course the premise is that they are no longer involved with each other. Love is something that belongs to two people, and has nothing to do with a third party. Trying to pry into her past is the same as being a nuisance to yourself! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Tricks: open one eye, close one eye
Open one eye, close one eye. Closing one eye is definitely not for you to condone their overly intimate relationship. It’s about giving your lover more space and time so he doesn’t feel pressured by being with you. Everyone wants a piece of the vanilla mountain that belongs only to them, and if there is love, let’s not spoil its mystery and allow him to keep the right to keep a little bit of his past.
Situation 2: He’s always had a flirtatious relationship with an old flame, and that irritates you. Simply have a big fight with him and fish out of water.
Analysis: A big fight will only bring your relationship to an impasse, so if you still want to save the relationship, you may want to suppress your anger and quietly think about how to solve it.
Tricks: Soft and hard
If you find out once he/she The first thing you need to do is to make a big fuss, even if you are forcing yourself to pretend to be understanding. Talk to him to analyze the reasoning in depth and observe his reaction and attitude. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Condition 3: He broke up with his old flame because of you, and always felt ashamed of him and his old flame.
Analysis: In the process of your relationship, if you always have a guilty conscience, then you must not be able to fully release your feelings for him, but only to carefully maintain, not only tired, but also lost the meaning of insisting on walking together in the first place
Tricks: Psychological Suggestions
Hint that you don’t need to be too sorry . He chose you simply because he loves you more and you are better suited for him/her. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
Situation 4: His old lover is trying to bother you, count you, and divide you from him in every way possible. You have a mouth to feed and resign yourself to fate like a Korean drama heroine ……
Analysis: Don’t admit defeat! Don’t admit defeat! Don’t admit defeat! The important thing to say three times! Ugly people will eventually reveal their ugly faces. You don’t have to bow down and admit defeat at all, and resolutely fight with the saboteurs to the end to defend their love. Resigning yourself to your fate will only make him think you are acquiescing to the saboteur’s untrue words.
Trick: The Spirit of the Brass Pea
Time to show emotional intelligence The first thing you need to do is to have the spirit of “copper peas” to face the saboteurs of your relationship with him/her – steaming, boiling, whacking and frying. The soldiers will stop, water to the earth, find the third party falsely accused you of evidence, with the facts to clear their own name. You have to be convinced that he/she loves you must understand your character and will not listen to the reckless instigation of old lovers. The fact that you have to be a good person, you will be able to get closer to each other.
Situation 5: His old lover is either gorgeous and generous, or has a successful career and is handsome, did he choose me out of necessity? Does he really love an ordinary person like me?
Analysis: You really think too much! It doesn’t matter who his old lover is, even if he is super intelligent and wealthy, since you are the one who ends up at his side, you should believe that love trumps all the strings attached. How else would the prince have chosen Cinderella?
Tricks: Be confident
Confidence is always the best weapon. . Don’t feel inferior because you are not as good as his old lover. If he loves you, he must want you to be a confident partner. The condition of the attachment is not the most important criterion for choosing a spouse, otherwise Prince Charles would not have chosen the latter between Diana and Camilla with determination!
Editor’s Note: In the face of his ex-girlfriend, no matter which situation you are encountering, the aim is not to let the other side ruin your relationship. A friendly reminder to never denigrate his ex-girlfriend! On the contrary you should be more grateful to that she, let your boyfriend grow up, and become the present you. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to see the actual situation.