When women force marriage, men will have various reasons to postpone the time, what age is still young, career has not yet become, parents do not agree, etc. …… Do you know which are the subtext of men do not want to marry you? When a man says something like this, a woman is better off dumping him to hurry up and find a new boyfriend.
One, my parents are against us being together, give me some more time.
In the face of a girlfriend’s forced marriage, men who are not mentally prepared to marry you will use their parents as a shield. The type of man, usually and you fall in love for half a year, will not take you to see your parents, but also rarely introduce you to friends. Although he usually cares about you, just afraid that you are not with him, he will be lonely. Your love is like a secret operation, apparently unable to see the light. Being pushed by you, he will tell you that your basic situation was confessed by him to his parents when you first established a relationship. It’s just that his parents are not satisfied enough with your hardware and are against you being together. For this, he did not have many arguments with his parents. He will seem very patient, frustrated and innocent to tell you, honey, give me some more time, I will make my parents accept you. Dare I ask, he won’t even give you the chance to meet his parents, do you think your love will work? So, when a woman and a man dilly-dally for more than half a year, he is not willing to take you to see your parents, which is bound to have fraud. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two, I want to wait until the car has a car before I marry you, please believe me.
As a loser, in the current market, the house and car or will consume more than ten years or even decades of savings, even if gnawing on the old man, parents will at most help to complete the down payment to buy a house. As a woman, if you have a promise to pay off the mortgage and car loan together after marriage, he is reluctant to marry you, but the crown says, honey, the house and car are things that men should take on, I strive to be in the shortest cycle, the car and house all done, when the time comes, and then marry you home in style, please believe me. At this point, women must not feel that this man is very bearable. He has a lot of ability, you and his love for so long, you should know best. The subtext behind or, I am now because no house, no car, only to be aggrieved at your side, if I have a house and a car, can look at you? Obviously, you are not his most ideal marriage object, choose to be with you, or because he did not meet at the moment so that he has the impulse to marry women. So when a woman meets a man you are willing to share with him, he is not even willing to marry you, don’t force him to marry early and spread his hands to find someone willing to marry you.
Three, I am on the rise in my career, wait for me for two more years, okay?
There is another type of man who likes to put off a woman’s love with work. The company’s business is a very important part of the company’s business. The face of the woman wants to get married hint, the man will say so, baby, now the leader valued me, I do not want to get married and distracted from the focus on the work, I want to take advantage of the leadership to appreciate me, for a better future. Give me two years, I will be able to mix an official and a half, by then, you respect and I enjoy the blessing. So, the woman is so silly and wait. Two years later, if the man mixed with the same as before, or will consider marrying you; two years later, if the man really has an official position, please believe that the bride is definitely not you. A man who really loves a woman who does not mind his own poverty, can not wait to marry it immediately, for fear of a long night. The man’s pushback at this time, there is only one explanation, he does not love you as much as you think.
Four, now advocating late marriage and late childbirth, we will get married after thirty years old.
When a woman is over twenty-five or twenty-six, especially when she looks around at her sisters who are married, she will develop a hatred of marriage. Forcing your boyfriend to marry you is all too understandable. However, the boyfriend came on a sentence, now advocate late marriage and late childbirth, we can not wait until the age of thirty to consider marriage. This type of man, or not enough to play, or too dependent on parents, do not want to wean, or you do not see you as a marriage object. The man is in what kind of consideration, he has no short-term plans to marry you, even if you take the breakup as blackmail, will not change his decision. When a man suggests that you marry later, please leave him before it is too late, because your youth in his body can not afford to spend. In the era of women loving uncles, men as long as they are not more than forty years old, the charm is proportional to their age, while the price of love for women is inversely proportional to their age, for this reason, do not use your youth to block an unknown tomorrow.
Five, you are my man anyway, why so anxious to get married?
Some men are just sweet-talking and have not been in love for long. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to meet the needs of its customers. If you can’t resist asking him when to get married, he will say, anyway, you are my people, why so anxious to get married. This kind of man, from the beginning of the relationship is to let you play with him, to give you a proper girlfriend identity, hidden from you do not know how many times cheating. The end of this kind of love, there is no foreshadowing, playing the sudden death method. If you are experiencing a seemingly marathon love, and he does not give the promise of marriage, then you should leave him early, do not wait until he wants to get married, looking for other women as wives, and then you dry eyes. By then, he will not have a trace of guilt for you, at most pretend to be benevolent to tell you that after years of testing, found that you are not suitable, in fact, he thought so in his heart, woe betide you foolishly with me for so many years.