Meet a man who has a crush on him, originally thought to show their reserve, who knows he is also not too active, two people progress slowly, how to do? I want to be direct and bold, but I’m worried he’ll misunderstand. What’s the solution?
The first step is to become an eye-catching woman
The first step is to become an eye-catching woman
< strong>1. Take care of your appearance
First of all, you need to be a woman with a “background”. This “background” is not a narrow family and family members and so on, but with a “background” into the world of men. For example, a guy met a girl in a stinky tofu stall, and when watching the show saw the girl leading the dance, the position in his heart is not the same, perhaps the conditions of the two girls are similar, but the limelight, the girl in the halo more attractive, is not it? Maybe the girl who dances is also the one who will go to the stinky tofu stand, and maybe the one who eats stinky tofu is the real rich white girl, but one cannot underestimate the factor that such different environments have an effect on human emotions.
So, if you’re not white and not skinny, then try to develop a sense of athletic beauty by wandering around with a racket more often; if you’re slender, with eyes, quiet and sultry, then run to the library more often and walk around with a few books. Use some “background” and “props”, so that they set off your worthy of being adored and pursued by women. Find your own identity and strengths, and then play them.
2. Learn to “make men tired”
Whether you’re really strong, or strong on the outside, when it comes to men, you must make him tired! This tired, is not to let him idle, to show weakness, to pamper. Of course, not a glass of water in front of their own must let him hand over, not lazy to move must let him buy rice over or something, that is not a sign of weakness, that is the princess disease. The actual fact is that the actual person is not a person, but a person who is not a person.
The best thing is to let him know that you’re strong, but not in front of him, and that many things can’t be solved without him. This way he will not worry, you are outside everywhere to ask for help from other people of the opposite sex, and be taken advantage of, and feel very present. There is a saying that men do not really like silly women, but like to play silly women. At this point, many girls may be snickering, why smart must play dumb? In fact, this is a great wisdom, after all, the sharp end hurts people hurt themselves, play dumb is a calm character, is not aggressive attitude, is to give others room for kindness performance.
3. Let him get away from you
With the background and the halo. The next step is to “do whatever it takes” at the right time. Why should it be at the right time? Because the young man is not some uncertainty of mind, the heart of the ape, and the Qin and the twilight. In short, men are not good things! But what can be done, men’s philandering, just like women’s premenstrual syndrome, prenatal syndrome, is a physiological decision, reason, education, maturity are only to make it restrained and convergence, but can not be eradicated.
In addition to being a third party, when you meet a man you can have a good relationship with, you have to use some thought to keep him away from yourself. Some girls are born arrogant and conceited and high-minded, feeling that a man loves her and must chase her and must tolerate everything about her. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
A man is not incapable of treating a woman exceptionally well. But it won’t be a woman who is particularly good at the beginning. The kind of girl who is waiting for a rabbit, you do not wait, even if you wait, is also a dead rabbit. Posture to put down some, vision to put up some, certainly not wrong. The real princess, is to know how to train a real worthy of their knight. Although the training is a little bitter, this knight belongs to herself.
Men’s thinking is more direct and rough, which is so much less worrying than women. So, to conquer men, you also need to use men’s thinking. Don’t be too petty, don’t always ask some “do you love me ah” and other questions. If you are too indecisive, suffering, then the man will be more direct and thick lines, lazy to care about you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, so that they can be able to get on with their business even if they are not happy.
Over time, a man will realize that underneath your soft exterior, you have such an open and generous heart. He feels he has a sense of security, after all, having a girlfriend like this is far more worry-free than having a girlfriend who thinks about things all day long. This is not only good for the relationship between the two, but more importantly, it is good for his own character.
Step 2, compliment him and tune him out, make him your knight
Train him with compliments
Be able to compliment a man and encourage him. A child grows up with low self-esteem or self-confidence, much depends on whether the parents are suppressing or encouraging. In fact, two people are also the same. A woman, more than wanting a man to praise her competent and talented, especially does not want his lover to praise himself in this way. But will like men to say they are beautiful and lovely, even if they feel a little silly and need to be pampered and taken care of all the time. But men are not. Men are a species that super needs to be complimented on being competent, handsome, or even any little thing that would make them feel happy if they were complimented.
Tell your friends, especially your boyfriend’s friends, more about him. A man has jealousy, a not so good man was praised by his girlfriend in this way, the people around him will be very envious. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Every girl wants to find an ideal lover, just like everyone has a male god in their heart. But, in reality, there may not be such a man, then you need to find a man who has the potential to be your man-god, and then tune him to be your man-god.