Love is like the sand in your hand when you hold it tighter and tighter, the less you end up with in your hand. The life after marriage is trivial and ordinary, in the eyes of foreigners “Chinese wife” how many bad habits? How much sand is left in our hands?
Wanting gold
Obviously, women who think this way often have The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Unpolished
Unpolished
There are few such women in China, especially after having children and gradually entering middle age. Such women often have the following psychology: one is the “safe” mentality, think “revolution” to the head, you can put the South Mountain, so dress casually, no longer pay attention to grooming. Second, the slack mentality. Is no longer “strict requirements for themselves”, everything is sloppy and sloppy, just get by. The love of beauty everyone has. Do you think such a woman can not let her husband down? Husband may not say, but the heart understands it. This is where the real danger lies. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Disregard for her husband’s dignity
Disregard for her husband’s dignity
You can be sarcastic about a man’s appearance, but you can never laugh at a man’s incompetence. The ability to make money, as well as the ability to have sex, are the two main aspects of a man’s dignity. The man who doesn’t feel the dignity will often give up on himself and feel inferior to himself. Therefore, the smart wife always try to maintain the dignity of her husband, through a variety of “fancy words” and “technical means” to motivate her husband to sail through the waves, to revive the masculine. In a word: women who do not know how to maintain the dignity of their husbands are too ignorant.
Some people describe women as a city’s landscape, so if there is no woman to compete with each other, how can the landscape be “bright”? However, if not according to their own economic conditions, blindly compare, it is too vain. This excessive vanity often makes those who are not “wealthy” men produce mental tension, and even overwhelmed by this. In a word: the woman who loves to compare well is too “horrible”.
Considerate not into the micro
Considerate not into the micro This is those who consider themselves This is a common problem of those who consider themselves “wise wives”. Some wives are complaining about their husbands: they care about him and take good care of him, why he is still not satisfied. But she may not know that she consciously or unconsciously, consciously or unconsciously cold or demeaning to her husband’s friends and relatives, resulting in the husband’s resentment. The union between a man and a woman is not only an interaction between two people, but also involves the interaction of different social relationships (such as family and friends) between two people. Neglecting such social relationships often deepens the feeling of marital “siege” and breeds the desire to break out of it. In a word: women who are not considerate are pathetic.
Neglecting sex
Because of the influence of thousands of years of feudal thought, most Chinese people talk about sex. The majority of people in China talk about sex, especially women’s sexual desires are suppressed, and they are seen as “immodest” for initiating sexual needs. In line with this, they see sex in marriage only as a way to pass on the family line, to have children and have to do things. This deviation of sexual concept makes them away from sexual pleasure, sexual enjoyment, resulting in a de facto separation of sex and love. Modern marriage should be the harmonious unity of sex and love. A harmonious sex life not only helps the couple’s love deepen, but also helps the couple’s physical and mental health.
Lack of housewifely consciousness
Housewifely consciousness and housewifely competence are They are closely related, and both are ultimately about how well women play their roles in the home, primarily the role of wife and mother.
It is said that “to capture the heart of your husband, you must first capture his stomach. Of course, this statement is too traditional, but it reveals a certain amount of truth. The impact of women with poor housekeeping or household management skills on marital and family life is self-evident. “Out of the hall, into the kitchen” should become a modern woman’s pursuit.