Marriage is something to aspire to, yet some marriages can also push people to the edge of a cliff and make them miserable. Here are four types of poor marriages that I hope you will be warned not to encounter.
1.Marriage with extramarital affairs
When one partner in a marriage feels no love and desires love When one partner in a marriage does not feel love and desires it, an extramarital affair will emerge as soon as the conditions are right. The kernel of love is passion, and passion is a burst, if the marriage is built strong, no affair party has been firm, the tide of passion will be difficult to wash it down. Some couples mend their ways, know how to defend, know how to adapt, they will have a marriage that can withstand the destruction. As the cheating party gets older, the tide of passion will get weaker and weaker, and the couple will be able to harvest a marriage that grows old together. Since love is bound to fade slowly in a marriage, a marriage completely free of extramarital affairs is inhuman, just as a man who never catches a cold must not be mortal. An extramarital affair is actually a compensation for monogamy.
2. Marriage without sex
This type of marriage is often the most torturous The couple either has a man who is so bad at sex that he can never get his partner to have an orgasm, or the woman is completely sexually indifferent and sees couples’ sex life as poison. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, the solution to this problem is very simple to say, if the woman is sexually indifferent, we must find out the cause of this result, is it cleanliness, or has suffered from this? The problem can be solved by looking for solutions on top of these causes, or by going to a psychologist.
3. Incorrigible marriages
This kind of marriage often occurs In the case of a gay marriage, a straight marriage, the gay party’s consciousness is that they are single in order to be qualified to pursue the person they adore and to be qualified to ask the other party to give them a marriage of mutual fidelity and mutual possession, and they see their spouse as a stumbling block and a thorn in their side, so they will not be as good to their spouse as they would be if they had a real affair, but they will seize their spouse’s weaknesses and constantly carry out They will not be nice to their spouse as they would be if they had a real affair, but they will grab their spouse’s weaknesses and keep on torturing them mentally. This is the most incorrigible marriage. As the homosexual party is usually well hidden in the marriage, the heterosexual party can not feel love no matter what they do, just like a person who can not be detected in the hospital, but they really feel the pain, so helpless, so dumb to eat the bitterness! In fact, the party that is gay is also very painful, marriage is the umbrella is also a shackle to wear for several years, a dozen years, decades, or even a lifetime.
4. Meritocratic marriage
All marriages for money, power All marriages for money, power, dependence, and vanity are utilitarian marriages. The characteristic of utilitarian marriage is that it is not based on love, and a marriage without love is most likely to become cruel. In today’s society, a marriage based on love, mutual attraction and mutual need is a healthy marriage. If you always put the word “betrayal” and marriage, it means that you want a marriage of mutual fidelity and mutual possession, and such a marriage requires strict legal and moral constraints to exist, by personal efforts, only through the control and be controlled, abusive and abusive way to achieve, and this is a distortion of human nature and maiming! A happy marriage should be one that trusts each other, makes each other feel comfortable, values both the shared and common parts, and continues to deepen and expand the intersection of each other.