If love could be like a fairy tale, where the prince kisses the sleeping beauty and lives happily ever after, love would not be labeled as a “risky investment” and The “War of the Roses”. The love field is like a battlefield, what things to do and what things not to do must be clear. There are six taboos in love that you should watch ……
1. Don’t treat desire as love
Why love has become fragile is because the distance of love, which has deviated from the healthy track, is no longer the distance from one heart to another heart, but the distance from one desire to another desire. Faced with sex, silly women will always go to extremes, thinking that love him should be impatient to give themselves. And in fact, men will hold on to women they care about and love for a while, and they like to have a challenging game of pursuit.
If you give yourself away, you are lowering your status in his mind. So, when you find yourself still skeptical of his love, stop him from continuing to unclothe you.
2. Don’t lose your self-esteem for love
Men and women are matched. Doing the work is not tiring, as everyone on earth knows. If everything is taken care of, it is less fun to interact, easy to exhaust yourself, and psychological imbalance will arise, imbalance will naturally quarrel. He (she) does not appreciate, you will be more sad. Two people share the work, rather than two people together. The best way to do this is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
What men want in a woman – a noblewoman in the living room, a housewife in the kitchen …… When one person is playing multiple roles, it’s best to stop there. The best thing is that you don’t have to be so involved every time. The key is to pick and choose what you like to do.
3. Don’t blame each other.
“It’s all your fault!” “You made me do it, and because of you, things are in a mess!” It’s easy to say such a complaint. The words “what I am responsible for” are rarely spoken. The actual complaint is an accusation and a threat, and the other person will naturally return the favor, leading to an escalation of the conflict.
Suggestion: Write down what you are complaining about to your lover, then ask yourself what you are responsible for, and then discuss and find a solution.
4. Don’t often gamble about breaking up
No matter how much you love each other The most important thing is that you have to be angry and break up. You should know that love is the acceptance of all aspects. The first thing you need to do is to be able to accept each other’s flaws, not change them.
If you lose your true love in the heat of the moment, it’s easy to be unsure when you go back into a new relationship. If your love is still redeemable, why can’t you let your love continue to bloom like a flower, burning with a beautiful passion? If you are in love with him/her and the fault lies with you, you can let go of the so-called face and compromise for once and give the other person a chance to be touched.
5. Don’t be suspicious and suspicious
Love her (him) by believing in her (him). Love has neither a preservative nor a foolproof insurance. Since we love each other, you should maintain a minimum of trust in him (her), if you do not believe in him (her) as a person, do not believe in their own vision? But if you really don’t trust him (her), then instead of being suspicious, it is better to spend more time together. Or travel together, discover each other together, get to know each other and become more comfortable with each other. Whether he/she is your true love or not, you still have to test it slowly through time ……
6. Don’t take your lover for granted for what he/she does for you.
It’s important to express gratitude to your loved one by eliminating three major negative attitudes: feelings of entitlement, unrealistic expectations, and staged forgetfulness.
Tip: Write down the big and small things your loved one has done for you. Ask yourself if you have expressed gratitude for these things and how well they were expressed. Stick to expressing gratitude for 1 week and you will notice a change in it.