Dear girl, from girl to woman, you must also have some heartbreaking experiences that make you feel like you’ve grown up overnight, right? We have traveled the bumpy road of love, love intensely, but also love heartbreak all over the place. In the rolling tears, waving goodbye to the past feelings, we meet with a better version of ourselves, in the head again and again in the lost love, we become increasingly mature. The 5 types of men, in laughter and tears, teach us what it means to love and grow on this journey.
Man #1: It’s not that they don’t love you, they just don’t love you enough
Their mouth will remember to say they love you, but you will never feel the weight of you in the relationship, even the LOL in his computer wins you. The day you break up, he doesn’t hurt.
Before we fall in love, we are first and foremost an individual, so of course everyone has things they care about, and the things that matter vary from person to person. It’s not like falling in love is going to be the whole of life. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to go around that person in public, but when you find out that you’re not in that person’s life orbit at all, that’s another thing.
It’s probably not that he doesn’t love you, he just doesn’t love you enough to care about your feelings. Before you, there are always a bunch of things, friends, video games, work, family, every single one of them wins you. “It’s not that I don’t love you, it’s just that my world wouldn’t be the same without you.” Finally one day he said to you with a shrug, then turned back and continued to play his LOL, as if the world was calm. The first time I saw this, I saw my own place in his heart, and you suddenly woke up to the fact that there was only “you” in this relationship, not “you”.
Things you learn at Man #1: Love is when two people are willing to work for each other
Things you learn at Man #1: Love is when two people are willing to work for each other
In every relationship, despite the failure, there is always something learned as well, right? Yes, falling in love is always a matter of two people. A person then actively trying, another person said no is not, there is no room to turn around. It is very rare to meet someone you like and he likes you. We think it’s worth it to meet someone who is willing to work hard for each other.
Man #2: Doesn’t love you and won’t let go
They don’t love and won’t let go.
They don’t love and don’t let go.
“If he doesn’t love me, why is he worrying about me like this?” You keep flashing such thoughts, but you realize after a long time, this kind of man, not at all kind, but called cowardly. The actual fact is that he is not concerned about you, he is just afraid of being lonely. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a lot more than just a few of these. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Things you learn in Man #2: Pettiness in love is the atmosphere of loving yourself< /span>
Because in love, none of us are actually great, we are just learning to put the weight of another person in our own self-turning lives, just taking another person into account when drawing our own blueprints for the future. After the breakup, do not force yourself to be a friend, because you are actually not bad this a friend. Instead of being his chicken feed, simply set out to find another person who is a better fit for you.
Man #3: The philandering prodigal who plays innocent
They believe “The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of it. The last said, you want it yourself, not by me. Bad does not matter, but he is badly bad, hiding himself so harmless. He wrapped himself in such a pure and good way, as if accidentally falling in love with you was the only exception in his good record. When he says, “It’s my fault for falling in love with you,” as if to condemn himself, only he knows he’s snickering.
He did love all those women around him, but the love disappeared so quickly that he ended up loving himself more than anyone else. In a relationship, he is tired of too fast, if the two world a little unpleasant, he is not even lazy to communicate, directly for the next faster. Finally, one day, you may find that he has a new object of interaction, and even do not intend to explain to you. You realized that before you, there were too many “seniors” who had stood frozen at the scene of the crime like you, each seeing his own shadow in the next person. The first thing you need to do is to get your own personalized, personalized, and personalized.
Things you learn at Men 3: Love is not a potent medicine for healing
Love, it turns out, is not about salvation. You once reached out to pull him out of one quagmire; you ended up being his next quagmire. The actual fact is that you’ve got to learn to save yourself. The first thing you need to do is to learn to crawl out of the mud yourself, not like him, and take another relationship as a cure.
Man #4: All day long, all you can think about is making out with you
There is a SEX, it seems, is the only way he can express his love. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. There are many ways to love, but for him, there seems to be only one way to show it. At first you think, at least this is his way of saying he “wants you”, at least your love is passionate. But after a few times, you suddenly feel that all he cares about is his own pleasure.
Because when he wants it, it’s out of your hands, you have little room to negotiate, you feel like you’re losing yourself, and your relationship becomes more and more of a dangerous bet, with your body as the bargaining chip. The three elements of love are intimacy, passion, and commitment, but your love has only one line, marked by a swift and fleeting passion.
Things you learn at Man #4: Men who really love you don’t love you just one way
Things you learn at Man #4: Men who really love you don’t love you just one way
If he loves you, he won’t just want to know you from a single perspective. He will crave to know more about your world, he will want to have not just you in bed, but you with glasses, you with shark clips coiled up hair, you who stay up late to do reports without shouting a tired, you who are stubborn in order to insist on things …… love, of course, will not always be the same mode of love, but it should be two people continuously, constantly The newest and most important thing is that you will be in love with each other.
Man #5: Have a wife and say you love her
They are greedy. greedy, want to take the wife with their left hand, but also want to hold you with their right hand. You can’t figure out why he is so good at dividing his time, or why he must cut one heart for two.
With him, you’re honestly happier than you’ve ever been. He is mature and calm, not and your age man reckless mania; he understands you, always listen to your strings; he does not particularly ask who you go out with, because he always believe you, so you have always deeply believe him. It was only much later that you discovered the reason why he was unavailable every Friday night, and it turned out that it was a regular gathering of their family, and he attended with his wife and children and their sweet family.
He says he loves you and has nothing but responsibilities for his family, and you look at the man in front of you, and he gushes on and on, and you feel so strange about him. The three people’s game, you play a good tired, you do not want to fight to the death only to change his love, you do not want to use all over the body to change a relationship. The first thing you need to do is to leave and finally remember yourself.
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