Growing older represents not only an increase in physical age, but also a change in the way we see the world. Thirty years old, do you still have the impulse and enthusiasm for love when you were twenty years old? We have become mature and worldly, and our need for affection is different.
The difference between a woman’s twenties and thirties
1. 20-year-old women have a lot of youth, full of curiosity about the world, full of longing for love; 30-year-old women, gradually become mature, others in the eyes of the light mature women, for love is no longer brave to the heart. 20-year-old love bombarded, not the other party will not marry, 30-year-old when the love The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product.
2. At 20, the streets are full of men who look like the one we’ve been waiting for; at 30, we no longer believe that our future is hidden behind a chance encounter.
3. All women can be divided into two categories: those who want to be millionaires, and those who want to marry millionaires, but here we can conclude that there is only one category of women in their twenties, and that is the one who wants to marry millionaires.
All women have a “bird complex” and want to make themselves a bird next to a man’s tree, but by the age of 30, most women find that there are few trees to lean on. Dependable, or their own wings hard more secure. Mature women have no ambition to change themselves for the taste of men. It’s lazy and it’s wise.
4. At 20 we say, “A complicated man is too cute.” At 30, our words become, “I love a simple man.”
5. At 20, we fall in love with a married man and are insanely jealous of his wife and daughter while loving him madly. This is one of the most painful relationships of a woman’s life, immune to married men for life after the chicken-and-egg, and left to sneer at the mention of their deeds.
At 30, we understand that a relationship with a married man can be a total deal or a game, and that mutual benefit is the eternal rule, and as long as you don’t take it seriously, you’re always a winner.
This is the time when women become ironclad and married men hit the rocks with their eggs. The only thing that will throw us off is the single guy on his knees proposing marriage.
Why is this happening?
Facing the first man, we swore our love would last forever; with the second man we still said the same thing, but our hearts were no longer so sure; and when the third man came, we looked out the window sideways and faintly We said, “Who can know what the future holds?”
At 20, when we fall in love with a man, we look forward to being with him every day, knocking on his door with our suitcases and asking him to take us in without his invitation; and at 30, there is nothing more enviable to other women than having a bachelor apartment.
Girls in their 20s can be very old-fashioned when it comes to relationships, and women in their 40s have been known to kill themselves for love. Love is like gymnastics, you need to start practicing from a young age without stopping to be skillful, and when you get older you will inevitably fall and hurt yourself. The woman of today’s age should practice her kung fu well before she turns 30, otherwise she will always be the one crying.
Like Edison, who went through countless failed experiments before finally finding the tungsten filament to light the lamp, we have many doomed relationships to talk about before we find the man who will spend our lives with us.
After enough experience, our perspective and logic of the world changes. Whether male or female, we don’t easily lose our minds over love. Needs may be more relevant to life. Some say it’s worldly. Yes, but it is also a life need. Otherwise, how will we live the next fifty years of married life? It can’t be full of romance and passion every day. So, enjoy your maturity.