Men naturally have a “hunting” mentality, often with a secret in mind. For some to leave a good impression on each other, and hide their shortcomings of the man, this hide belongs to the psychological level of “self-satisfaction”. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
First: Let’s try it first
Have a try-it attitude with a woman. The first thing you need to do is to try it out with a woman, even if you know from the beginning that you won’t get to the end with this woman, but you are still willing to live with her. Because men are born with a “hunting” mentality. Even if you want to cheat women, but also under the guise of love to act. Because in the state of love, maybe he really pay true feelings, maybe he just play, it is difficult to distinguish. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Second: I will always wait for you
When pursuing a woman.
When pursuing a woman, she will make a bold promise like “as long as you are not married, I will not marry”, in fact, he is thinking: I have done so, if you still do not say yes, then I have to “eat in the bowl and watch the pot”, waiting for the surprise to appear.
Third: You’re the special one
No matter how many times a man has been in a relationship, cheated or abandoned. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. This is the usual small scheme of men, many women are clear about this when they look at the love of others, often to their own, they can not help themselves.
Fourth: Doesn’t getting laid matter? That’s a lie
In a man’s mind, the measure of how far a relationship has come is often whether or not he slept with the woman.
Fifth: Betrayal stems from dislike for you
For For most men, if a woman is outstanding in looks and body, she will have an absolute advantage in the relationship process. In the eyes of men, a woman’s beauty is the capital that makes her willing. However, if a man wants to betray you, or want to abandon you, it has nothing to do with your looks and strengths and weaknesses, this time, all the man’s rhetoric is an excuse. Otherwise, in the first place, did he not fall in love with such a you?
Sixth: I know exactly what I’m going out with you for
Men fall in love for a very strong purpose. If you love a woman deeply, he will not care about gain or loss, not eager to possess. And the man is very clear and female relationship, is out of love or sex. If it is the latter, he will strive in the shortest possible time to find a way to get it. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Seventh: I’m just cheap
If a woman agrees too quickly A man’s courtship can leave a man with an inexplicable sense of loss. Perhaps you will say that this is “cheap”, but no way, men are like that. The more you can’t get, the harder it is to get, the more precious it will be, the more you will cherish it.
Eighth: Commitment? Who knows how long it lasts
The future a man promises to a woman may only last a year. And this year, there is a possibility that the woman will misunderstand for the rest of her life. Therefore, women in the process of love, to maintain sanity, the words of men, can not be disbelieved, and not all believe. Most of all, look at the action. The most important thing is that you can’t trust a man who doesn’t have any action and is just playing with his mouth.
Listen to his subtext
Men’s thoughts and expressions are different from those of women.
The way men think and express themselves is different from women, and if you understand it the way you’re used to, it’s up to you to turn it into a cup of water.
I’ve been so busy and tired lately.
Decipher: Baby, step aside, it’s not your turn yet.
If a man is smitten with you and cares about your relationship, he will never use work as an excuse and will always call. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a lot of time to make a phone call, no matter how busy you are. The man who repeats this phrase over and over again is not necessarily signaling to you to stop the dating game, but may be hesitant to enter the substantive stage of your relationship. You can tell from this that you are not the best choice in his mind.
There are some things I need to think through on my own.
Deciphering: please leave me alone for a moment.
This phrase is a bit of an eviction, and a bit of an ultimatum. …… The possibilities are endless. Most sensitive women usually interpret this as “Get out of the way!” But in fact, his desire to be alone is his way of thinking rationally about himself and expecting you to cooperate positively with him.
Of course, this statement could also mean that he’s thinking about leaving you, but isn’t very sure of himself and is still thinking, “Do I really want to leave her?” The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
I hate women who play games.
Breaking: I’m just setting a trap for you to fall into, to see if you’re honest.
This mantra sounds simple, straightforward, and even a little sweet, while In reality it is a common gimmick used by those dudes to get a woman’s real thoughts on the status of their relationship. They hide their true feelings and use such tricks to maintain their “tall” image. The woman’s heart is in the right place.
Reach out again.
Decipher: It’s time for us to end this conversation, but maybe someday I’ll be interested in giving you a call.
There are different versions of the “deciphering” of this sentence by our friends in the small universe. So the final conclusion is unanimous: these words can be interpreted to mean anything. Perhaps women will wonder: if a man has no intention of being with you, why would he lie for your phone number? The results of the “deciphering” show that this is the best way for men to end the conversation. That way, they can slip away with the grace of a gentleman.
So the next time you hear those words, women should just set their expectations to “0”.