What to do in a marriage crisis? In everyday life, many couples facing marital crisis are complaining to each other, blaming each other for intensifying the conflict, and trying to find the right and wrong of the marital problem, to solve it and make up for it. In fact, in the opinion of psychologists, this search for right and wrong is not only futile, but also will expand the conflict in the marriage. There is no right and wrong in marriage. Many times it is often our impulse or laziness that brings a marriage to an end. And more often than not, part of the time, we look too much at the mistakes in the marriage and over-demand each other, and many times even turn out to be harsh. Don’t try to find the right and wrong in your marriage problems.
A significant number of ladies take the approach of constantly looking for friends and family to talk to when a marriage crisis comes, and it ends up getting worse instead. According to marriage experts, this kind of confessions prompted themselves for the couple relationship more and more biased, over and over again, which friends and relatives will not be biased confessions of a party? So helping you crusade against each other instead makes the fire add fuel to the fire.
For the desired goal, it’s worth it to take these little grievances. Remember this, the only way to take the initiative to change yourself is to take the initiative to control the fate of your marriage. Some couples think that a cold war or separation can put out the war, not knowing that this negative cold war will only aggravate the crisis, it is often more deadly than the quarrel. The prospect of a cold war is often desperate, and instead of thinking through the crisis of the marriage during this time, anyone will wander around looking for their values.
Marriage and family are the flower garden of love. The flower garden should have enough space to grow and have a plan to plant, sometimes to turn the soil, sometimes to fertilize, sometimes to transplant, sometimes to eradicate. The flowers are planted depending on the season, the season is different, the flowers are different, married life also has four seasons of change, each season has different difficulties and dangers, and the meaning of danger, is not the “crisis in the crisis”? The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.