Unknowingly you have become a spare tire …… Why can’t you get rid of the bad luck of “spare tire woman”? The next time you fall in love, you must become his true love! First of all, I would like to introduce you to three relationship tendencies that can easily fall into the fate of a “spare tire”.
1. The backpack is cluttered with receipts and other unnecessary things;
2. Being pursued by many people you don’t like and not getting along well with those you do like;
3. Prefer to act alone. When there is an emergency, you can’t find friends who can help;
4. You are not clear about your preferences and often answer “whatever”;
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7. Always apologize first when you argue with someone;
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9. Always be reassured to “pull yourself together” by someone who is mentally weak.
Relationship Tendency #1: Confused Love.
If you meet 1, 3, or 5 of the above characteristics, you have a tendency to fall in love “in a daze. You don’t know anything about what you like and what you want to try. The first thing you need to do is to be able to say how you feel and what you want to do, and you will often get caught up in each other’s rhythms.
For such you, traveling to a person to a lucky place is a very effective relationship transit method. All you need is to be clear about what you want to do and put it into action. By traveling alone, making your own plans, and making what you want to do happen one by one, you can learn about yourself, regain your confidence, and win power in the process.
Relationship tendency #2: Give too much love.
If you meet points 2, 5, and 8 of the appeal characteristics, you have a tendency to “give too much love” in relationships. In love you take the initiative and must fall in love with the person you like. In fact, in your heart you are hiding a deep anxiety that you will not be accepted by others. This kind of relationship can be controlled by yourself, but the mood of liking changes with the other person, not knowing when the other person will change his or her mind, and there is always a deep sense of unease hidden in the bottom of your heart.
People with this tendency often have a relationship with their parents that hides a great deal of pain. For such people, strengthening the awareness of “self love” is a very effective method of love transfer. Look in the mirror every day and find three good things about yourself. This way, you can start a relationship that not only gives love, but also feels full of love.
Relationship tendency #3: Competitive love.
If you meet points 3, 6, and 9 of the appealing characteristics, you have a tendency to be “competitive in love. You are not good at being pampered and not good at relying on others. Because you are too strong, you always create the illusion that “she is fine without me”, which makes the other person feel lonely. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
For this kind of person, “tears” are the elixir of your love life. Tears when it’s time to cry; smiles when it’s time to laugh; touched by beautiful things. Such rich feelings, your luck in love will also improve. You will be happier in love if you show your vulnerable, hurt side in front of the one you like, learn to pamper people and learn to depend on them.