No tangible evidence, but some of my wife’s performance, so I feel very strange, according to these strange performance, I feel that there are seventy to eighty percent possible, the wife outside and other men in bed.
Now I, and more tangled, to be honest, I myself have on people’s wives seven or eight, life as a wife’s resources on so many, I can get on seven or eight, people can also get on three or five or a few, so for the wife of this thing, feel no great anger, just feel sorry, perhaps also present karma, you play other people’s wives, their wives sooner or later will also give others to play. Plus I’m a person, the mind is quite peaceful, on these things, really do not look so serious, I’m still thinking if I can, one day and his wife to a 3P multi-P or something, but for people who have not really crossed that step, this thing, is always a tangled thing.
Although the heart is also prepared (the worst intention is the wife was playing, this thing who can say it, maybe the wife is playing others), but really found this speculation, the heart is still a little uncomfortable.
Now here to talk about this thing, because I myself also have their own intentions, but also to say these intentions, everyone to give me advice or suggestions, or to say the views of my intention
1. about whether to reveal the fact that the existence of the issue of whether the showdown
I am sure that the evidence I have taken out, my wife and other men, can certainly be confirmed and established, but now there is 80% of the evidence, can only locate the wife and other men implicit interaction, the so-called catching adultery and catching double, now there is no evidence of catching double, so I intend to continue to wait, waiting for conclusive evidence, and then a showdown with his wife this matter, after the showdown divorce is not considered, married Eight years, children are also big, for the sake of children, divorce is not considered for the time being. The reason why the showdown, is to the wife and this man completely cut off relations, and, for their own future caught evidence to leave a way out (you first play outside, so do not blame me for playing outside).
And whether the showdown, here I also hesitated, although the showdown is good, a clean solution to the problem, but who can be sure that after the showdown, the woman will not contact with this man, more covertly to the rendezvous (showdown involves the way I forensics, this thing, used once does not work, the next time the wife will certainly be guarded), or find another man (which no one can say, according to me and other The woman’s experience with other women to judge, my wife this type of woman, unless moved sincerely, will sleep with other men, and such a woman, as long as you are not around 24 hours, then she will always find the opportunity to date), so we also say their views, whether to wait for the real evidence after the showdown? In fact, the showdown is only for the greater good, is not it? But I here showdown, but no greater interest, after all, does not involve the issue of divorce, but you can take this opportunity to warn the wife hard, do not have any more non-existent ideas!
2. I want to beat up that man hard
This is the reason why I have to quietly wait to catch the conclusive evidence, the best can catch adultery in bed, although for the wife here generous, but that man, I think things happen in everyone’s head, we will also want to beat each other hard, claiming compensation for moral damage! Damn, the wife can not give people dry ah, especially without my permission!
3. whether to let the wife’s family know about this thing
Since the showdown, then the wife involved in the matter of reputation, and her family together to catch adultery, let her family know, on the one hand, to increase the flavor of her warning, so that she does not dare to mess around outside in the future, but on the other hand, this will also hit her, the wife’s career is now doing okay, she has the current achievements, I am also happy, frankly, can not afford to ruin her! This thing to really make a scene, according to my judgment, this is for her, will be a very serious blow!