Women are always more passive and shy when it comes to sex, and there are some intimate sexual matters that they don’t want to say easily, but they want men to understand. The following women’s “sexual heart”, hope that men understand.
1. “I know how to get pleasure, I just don’t want to boss you around during sex, that would be too open.”
Many times, men will think they are touching themselves during sex, but it doesn’t help women get faster and reach orgasm. In fact, they know their own body best, know what way more comfortable, but do not dare to say it easily, afraid to hurt the man’s self-esteem. If you’re curious to know what a woman thinks, find a time outside of sex, such as when the two of you are leaning on the couch watching a comedy, and do a discussion with her.
2. “Having sex every day doesn’t make me more comfortable, and taking too long doesn’t make you seem more capable.”
Men like to have sex at a high frequency to show their desire and sexual ability, but really, to women, sex is a sublimation when the relationship is just right and doesn’t have to be forced every day. At the same time, men do not have to worry about ejaculating too early every time they have sex to lose face, because women get pleasure does not depend entirely on the length of time. More often than not, a man’s mastery of strength and technique is more important than time.
3. “I can tell which moves you’ve stolen.”
Men like to learn tricks from porn, but most of them seem “flashy” and women can sense which moves are real and which are The actual woman can feel which is real and which is to show the sexual ability. Women would prefer that men remove the falseness and abandon the useless “gimmicks” and have sex from the heart.
4. “Orgasms aren’t everything, and I don’t blame you if I don’t have one.”
For women, sex itself is a source of pleasure, and they can’t orgasm every time, but that doesn’t mean men aren’t capable of it, so take it easy on that.
5. “Just because you want to talk after sex doesn’t mean you didn’t get satisfaction.”
After sex, when a man falls asleep, there is always a sense of loss in the woman’s heart. In fact, it is not that women do not let him sleep, they just want to continue to have a cuddle and some warmth.