Nowadays, every leftover man and woman is believed to have experienced being urged by their parents to get married, especially now that it is nearing the end of the year, there is definitely a round of marriage rush coming up. You are ready to do it? The following I teach you three tricks can help you subtly respond to your parents’ marriage rush.
One, you need to know how to be submissive in the face of your parents’ marriage rush.
Yang Feng Yin Yin is the neutral word here. The parents’ urge to get married should be understood by the children, but it is not the same as unconditional blind obedience. After all, the right to happiness depends on their own to fight and determine, parents’ opinions are only for reference. When parents rush, you may want to give parents a step down, the surface of the promise, behind the scenes what to do what to do. Of course, the use of this trick is very limited, not long-term use. The actual fact is that you can’t get married, and your parents will be suspicious of your previous statements.
Two, in the face of your parents’ urging to get married, you need to know how to think differently.
Some leftover men and women lose their minds in the face of their parents’ urging to get married and lose their temper with their closest relatives, which is a big no-no. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. Because we know that even if we are cold to our relatives, they will not really mind. However, we must know how to think differently. In the face of parental pressure to marry, leftover men and women may wish to put themselves in their parents’ shoes, communicate with them more, and tell them their real thoughts. If you don’t want to get married for the time being, then you should also tell your parents frankly about your intentions, try to gain their understanding, and try to reach a consensus with them on the issue of marriage.
Three, in the face of your parents’ urging to get married, you should know how to go on a proper blind date.
Many leftover men and women are always suspicious of matchmaking, and consider it a rather degrading and even shameful thing. Subconsciously, they think that only those who can’t marry or marry their daughter-in-law will go on a blind date. In fact, dating is also a way to create a destiny. Now many leftover men and women have a narrow social circle, at this time, if parents arranged a blind date, do not simply refuse, can be appropriate to participate in some blind dates. Blind dates do not have to have a result, even if it is through the blind date to meet more friends is also good. So, in the face of parental pressure to marry, leftover men and women can properly go on some blind dates to offset their parents’ doubts and make them feel relieved.
The reason why parents are pushing for marriage is simple: in their opinion, they will only feel at ease when they see their sons and daughters become established. The majority of parents’ lives revolve around their children, from the moment they are born, they start to work, go to school, graduate, find a job, find someone, get married, and then continue to raise the next generation for their children, until the end of their lives. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.