A woman’s life should be diligent in thinking, and not too simple in thinking about things, you know, men will not marry an idiot as a wife, they will not willingly follow the woman all day to take care of the trivial things for her. The woman’s maturity is not proven by her age, but by her wisdom.
There are so many temptations nowadays, don’t let your husband drift away in the bustling city, usually read more books, but don’t necessarily let him know that the books are for your own use, not to show off. Women should keep an extra close eye on those married and somewhat complacent men who think they are very manly and think there are many little girls who like them as mature and attractive men.
As a wife you have to indirectly and euphemistically tell the man that it’s not you who is attractive, but your wallet that is attractive, married women should not always praise him in front of her husband, those words are still saved for outside to brag about. If, unfortunately, your husband and the mistress are good together, then it is important to analyze specifically what type of emotions between your husband and the mistress belong to, this process is important, it directly affects your general policy of dealing with this matter later.
The first type: your husband is just lonely and bored to find a mistress.
Then it depends on your husband’s attitude towards admitting his fault in this matter, if his attitude is good and both parents stand up for him, then let’s forgive him.
Remember, it’s a great opportunity to keep a firm grip on the finances during this process, but don’t be ostentatious on the surface, do it in a way that makes the man feel like you’re giving him a chance, and that this opportunity is lost.
Type 2: Your husband and the mistress have real feelings.
He doesn’t love you anymore and the marriage is just an empty shell, then you need to let the man net out. A woman who has no more youth and hasn’t found her next home has to find a financial support for the rest of her life.
Think of all the years you’ve given so much to men, and in the end you have nothing left for yourself, do you feel good about yourself? To this last step, don’t miss any old feelings, even if the man shows extreme aggression and lingering, you should not be soft-hearted. You should know that those are pretend, if he really came back, then it is not true love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The third type: your husband is bewitched by the mistress.
In this case you need to mobilize the power of your family and let both parents take turns to painstakingly call your husband’s soul back. Next you have to take on the mistress, find a little trouble from time to time, such as stalking her, perhaps find an investigation center, check the woman, once the woman has a husband, or there is a lover out there, we have to publish this matter to the world.
Your day is comfortable, but you can’t let the mistress continue to get away with it. If you are a kind and simple person with traditional Chinese virtues and can’t bear to do this, then you have to put some effort into your husband, and from time to time he cheats on you. The thing to mention, let him have a sense of guilt. But you can’t mention this too often, it will make the man feel numb.
The fourth type: your husband is hesitant between you and the mistress.
This kind of man is the most unproductive. If you love, you love, and if you don’t pull it off, what’s the point of being coupled up?
If you are still in love with this man, you will have to fight him over, this time the woman should be soft, and then soft, it is best to talk about the things you used to do in front of the man from time to time, at this critical moment do not talk about what self-respect, can catch the husband over The only serious thing.
If you don’t love the man anymore, let go of him, but don’t let go of him lightly, let him know you’re not a woman to be messed with either. Before you leave the house, you have to make a mess. The woman’s heart will be in her mouth, and she’ll have to walk around when she sees you from afar.
Type 5: Your husband cheated on you a second time, or even a third or fourth time after the first cheating incident ……
Type 5: Your husband cheated on you a second time, or even a third or fourth time after the first cheating incident ……
Then you’re going to have to “plummet three times”. The most convenient way is to make your husband impotent and see if he can still find a mistress in the future, but of course, this technique should be done perfectly, so that no outsiders can see any weaknesses. There is a saying that what goes around comes around, so you have to give your husband’s kidneys and prostate gland …… a big boost, and finally, he won’t even have the strength to walk, and that will be a success.
These tactics don’t sound too tough. There are times when deterrence is important, and with some men, a mental gate is better than tears.