Today, many couples are willing to live together before marriage for the harmony of married life. The cohabitation life is actually good or not, actually lies in whether both parties know how to manage and maintain. What are the benefits of cohabitation before marriage? What should I pay attention to?
In fact, there are good and bad things about living together before marriage, the good thing is that after living together the two people will communicate more and better integrate into each other’s circle, so the relationship may be more stable. In fact, one of the great benefits of having a boyfriend around is that no matter what the problem is, there is someone around to help you solve it and not feel powerless and tired. For boys, a girlfriend around, at least not every day to eat noodles, the two can also go out together on the weekend to pedal a bike, pressure road, release the pressure. In fact, if you want to clearly understand what kind of person you are, you can observe it when you live together for a period of time, so living together before marriage can be the best way to get to know a person thoroughly, except for people who are too deep in the city.
Get to know the real each other early
You can get to know each other better before you get married. It allows you to gain more insight into each other before you get married, so you don’t have to “settle scores afterwards. After all, when you’re in love, you’re trying to disguise yourself as much as possible, and you’re willing to spend money for each other or often be attentive, so living together before marriage can be said to simulate the situation after you get married, so you can get a general idea of each other’s habits and not complain about each other not brushing your teeth at night and not washing your feet before bed.
It’s easier to do a clear division of labor
There are Many people complain to me that after they get married, they often fight over housework.
After all, it’s not like before that women are the ones in the hall, especially now that the status of women has improved, and many men have learned that housework is difficult, so conflicts arise. This is how conflicts arise. So, after marriage, many people will complain, a slight change or even divorce because of this. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Making women more virtuous
After living together, women are also different from when they were in love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This way, with the caution of not being married, it is easier for a woman to experience the pressure of marriage in a very short period of time.
Good for relationship development
Living together before marriage is good for relationship development The first thing you need to do is to live together. The first time you live together, you can see each other every day, get tired of each other, eat together, take care of your love nest together, and work together for your ambitions in life. Even if you are together at first because you like it, the relationship will grow stronger with time.
After cohabitation, maybe it is different from when you are in love, staying together all the time may expose the flaws of both, so what do you need to pay attention to when cohabiting before marriage?
Be prepared to discover each other’s flaws
Before cohabitation, each date, each other is in front of each other to show their most perfect side, after cohabitation is likely to let down their guard and expose their real life state completely in front of each other. Since you have chosen to live together, you should be fully prepared to meet all his flaws that you know, and learn how to tolerate each other and adjust your mode of living together in time.
Don’t ask about each other’s privacy
Respect each other’s privacy even after marriage. The other party’s privacy. The fact that you are living together does not mean that you are practicing the other person’s privacy to inventory everything. He is not your personal property, his privacy is not necessary to confess to be lenient. It is also easier for you to feel happy and secure by focusing more on your future and less on his past.
Sex
Two people who live together are naturally bound to have The first thing you need to do is to have sex. Although today, the loss of “virginity” is not a big problem, but if your feelings are not good enough to really talk about marriage, then it is best to be cautious about premarital sex. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.