Women think short hair is sharp and handsome, but they don’t know that 92% of men like women with long hair and only 8% of men like women with short hair. For the above results, an expert analysis, this is related to the majority of men’s “first love complex”. There is also a small part from the men’s desire for women with long hair. Since most men have a “first love complex”, whether the conditions for men to choose a spouse and first love exactly match? The fact is that this is not the case.
First love is, in many cases, the best interpretation of a relationship. We know that the first love object is not as good as it used to be, but the memories of the first love are so good. Therefore, men cherish their first love, but because they are older, they have a new ideal to pursue in choosing a spouse.
1. Chinese men also care about the age of women
In addition to physical appearance, another important criterion for Chinese men to choose a spouse is age. Open the newspaper, turn on the TV, you will find that the recruiter invariably requires the woman’s age is younger than their own, 20-30-year-old man generally requires the other party is 1-5 years younger than him, 30-40-year-old man requires the other party is 5-15 years younger. After the age of 40, the man can generally only find a wife in his daughter or granddaughter generation. Foreign men, of course, also pay attention to the age of the woman, otherwise there will be problems with communication. But they do not particularly require women must be younger than they are, a few years older also does not hurt. So, the age range they give in their marriage announcements is usually their own age plus or minus 5 years.
2, to have a good view of the big picture
No such basic A woman without this basic view of values is more dangerous to be a wife. The woman who is willing to give up everything for love, who is willing to throw herself away to get love, who is crazy about romance lacks a big picture view. A person can fall in love with a bang is a rare thing, if the fairy tale becomes an attitude of life, a habit, a goal. This state will make people become more and more selfish, forgetting about family, forgetting about friends. In the end, it’s all about hurting yourself, hurting your family, hurting the people around you. A woman with a big picture view knows how to balance her feelings. Love is not the only thing in life.
3. She will give up three points even if she has a point
Looking for a wife I am absolutely The woman is not looking for the kind of woman who is too assertive, cross-justified, mean and petty: the man is caught dead, ruthlessly criticizing the word “private” a flash, always watch out for your “bad” movement, forcing people to be breathless, this woman is really terrible ah. Or the kind of woman like cotton clothing is good, close to the heart and lungs, and leave a gap, breathable not tight. I do not know how aggressive in everything, always a “Oriental invincible” frame of the woman is thinking? And then have the insight and brains and drive and what, this woman before marriage will scare men away, after marriage will make men distressed. The actual smart woman is going to leave room for her husband.
4, tolerance
Man’s importance for family and women To a far greater extent than women can imagine, they are always used to treating their families and women as safe havens and comfort zones. So they want it to be completely inclusive of their successes and failures, welcoming them back with open arms no matter what.
5, talk
Psychologically speaking men are very afraid of The man is very afraid of being alone and lonely. Single men go out for a drink every night or sleep over at a friend’s house not because they like to drink or are very close to their friends. Their real reason is that they are afraid of being alone. So married men have good reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and isolated. So when men lose track of their women or when they are late or don’t come home, they are terrified like a naked nun in a downtown.