The love talk is almost over, and when it comes time to talk about marriage, the ugly daughter-in-law finally has to meet her in-laws. But the first time to meet the in-laws will inevitably be nervous, afraid of making mistakes, leaving a bad impression on the prospective in-laws. The next 10 taboos for women meeting their in-laws for the first time, women may want to take a look.
1.Avoid wearing heavy makeup
A good face, a good face, will make the heart grow fonder. It will make the heart love and pity, after all, people are fond of beautiful things. Therefore, we can spend appropriate light makeup in order to make themselves more beautiful and more confident. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2.2. Avoid helping your mother-in-law
First impressions are important The first time you are diligent, people will hold you to that standard, and in the future, if you are worse, they will think you are being lazy or posing. In order to avoid excessive demands on you in the future, do not do too well for the time being. Not teaching sisters to be lazy, just teaching you when to do and when not to do.
3. Avoid saying things to please your in-laws and sister-in-law
The first time sisters come to the house, they want to make a good impression on their future in-laws, which is true in itself. The wrong thing is that some people are afraid of being soft, the more you please the more wrong you are, people do not take pleasing as polite but as you are afraid of him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4. Avoid sending money to your in-laws for the first time
Bring nothing and don’t bring anything The first thing is how much money, maybe in your eyes quite an appropriate amount in the eyes of the in-laws is a hairy, messy to be said petty. The first thing you can do is to give more, so people can’t pick a reason. Then have you thought about the future? The more you give on your first visit, the more people will expect from you later.
5. Avoid being supported by your husband-to-be in front of your in-laws
Relationships There is always one dominant person in a relationship or marriage, and that person can be your husband, but not the in-laws. People see their sons so hardened in front of their daughters-in-law, can they still treat you as a dish? Husband listen to their own words, mother-in-law still dare to underestimate you? She is not afraid to lose even her son together? So can not be in front of the mother-in-law by the husband to support the slippery turn, not to mention the fear, to be tough.
6. Avoid not knowing how to support your husband to do things
The idea of the old generation Most of them are: the man is the head of the family, can’t do housework can’t go into the kitchen. But who agrees with the daughter-in-law nowadays? The first time you go to the door to turn this situation around in front of your mother-in-law, in the future you are tired of vomiting blood people think they should. Women do some work does not matter, the heartbreak is that people still do not appreciate a deserved look. The first time you don’t support him, the in-laws will feel wrong if you let him work again.
7. Avoid compromising when your in-laws mention the principle
Some The hot mother-in-law has figured out the little woman’s soft spot and knows that she is too embarrassed to ask for benefits on her first visit, so she brings up the bride price and the accompanying marriages a should thing, etc. at this time. For example, the mother-in-law said, “Your brother-in-law is going to college this year, and there is really no money left in the house, so you should worry about your own business.” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Avoid wearing revealing and sexy clothes
China is all about It is traditional beauty, especially for the parents’ generation, so put away those overly revealing, overly sexy clothes when you meet your in-laws. If you wear too much exposure, sexy, as the older generation, in-laws will be difficult will accept, feel that this is not decent. It is also best not to wear a skirt. A skirt is very good for a girl’s elegance and beauty, but a skirt does not cope well with situations because it is not convenient.
9. Avoid saying too much
In the in-laws’ house, chatting is The first step is to get to know you. The first thing you should remember is that you should not talk too much, especially when you don’t even know your in-laws’ basic preferences and personalities. Of course, talking less doesn’t mean not saying a word, and you should seize the moment to talk.
10. Avoid giving inconsiderate gifts
The first time you visit your home The first time you visit someone, the gift is very important. China is traditionally a country of etiquette, and it’s not polite to come to the door empty-handed. As for the gifts, it is important to ask your boyfriend, they are not 100% aware of their parents’ preferences, but it is helpful. And, the gift must be comprehensive, for example, your boyfriend has grandparents, then we should buy some for the elderly, if there are children, their gifts are also essential. Of course, the main thing is the in-laws, not to take away from the main event.