After the passionate relationship, there will always be a bland as water after the passion. And this flat as water, some men feel precious, but most men can not help but fall into the marriage fatigue, and even the idea of cheating.
In the face of the second type of man mentioned above, sitting on the sidelines does not seem to be the optimal solution. The first thing you need to do is to get to know the characteristics of the man and control the key moments when the man is easily seduced by other women, and the fence is tied tight so that the wild dogs can’t get in.
Which men are most likely to cheat?
One, the couple live apart and he suspects his wife of cheating and has a vindictive cheating mentality.
Once a man suspects his wife of cheating he will be as convinced as if he had gone off the rails, even if it is empty, he will have an unbalanced mentality, or find ways to devise personal attacks to retaliate, or wait for the opportunity by all means. Therefore, if you want to eliminate the man’s paranoia, the best way is the usual timely communication, let your husband know that he is the only one in your life, you only love him a man, and, if possible, take him together socializing, or let him know your circle of friends. Men are very simple creatures and they love sweet talk as well, whereby they can get security.
Two, when you’re reunited with your first girlfriend and you learn that your ex-girlfriend is having a bad time.
Most men have a deep sense of guilt about their first love, no matter how long they’ve been dating or whether the woman abandoned him first, he still feels that the main responsibility lies with him, so there will always be a faint feeling in his heart about his first love. The first love will always have a faint feeling of remembrance. The first time I saw a woman, I was in the middle of a conversation with a man, and I was in the middle of a conversation with a man.
Three, when you meet a woman who makes you look like a man because you have no status at home and have long been strongly suppressed by your wife.
Some men are not tall and strong, but they marry a woman who is taller and stronger than they are as a wife, and as a result, they are not always the head of the family after marriage, and the absolute authority of the woman in the family also tends to breed the problem of looking down on men. . When a man lives in an environment where he is despised by his wife for a long time, he often imagines that he can be a man one day, so the dignity that he can’t get from his wife will be acquired from other women, and the void in his heart caused by his wife’s denial of the value of men, he will look for opportunities to fill from another woman, so respect for the husband is the wife’s part, don’t push the distance between the two from this.
Fourth, the wife is cold to her husband when suddenly an understanding and gentle woman appears beside him.
If the couple quarrels, it is best not to let the husband go outside alone to calm down, and to solve problems at home. And, don’t let your husband feel that you are cold to him or even let him feel that you don’t want to care about him in the cold, which will make men feel lonely inside, if at the moment there happens to be a woman who he thinks is particularly understanding, at the moment, even if she is tempted, he will not feel guilty. The most important thing is that you can be sure that your husband will be able to get the best out of you.
V. When the wife is pregnant or breastfeeding or when the woman’s attention is gradually shifting to the child.
Women are usually more reluctant to men’s physical needs during pregnancy, they are afraid that their husband’s inappropriate actions will hurt the baby in their bellies, likewise, women put their main attention and main energy on the baby during breastfeeding The actual woman is not a good person, but she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person, and she is a good person.
Six, when he is happy to drink wine and can often socialize with open women.
Some men are very excessive, always expecting to live a “red flag at home, outside the colorful flag fluttering” life, therefore, often like to go out with female friends to drink and to drink to the flower. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. It is easy to lose judgment after drinking, especially when the original motive is impure, and when both of them are slightly drunk and excited, it is common to do something out of the ordinary. If your husband tells you that he has a dinner party at night, you can ask which people he is with. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Seventh, when you run away from a fight with your wife and meet a single classmate or colleague of the opposite sex who is willing to take you in.
After all, there are no good couples who do not quarrel, but quarrelsome couples should have rules, that is, quarrels do not leave home, do not stay out all night, if there is a conflict should be timely communication to do the bed quarrel and the end of the bed, not to allow the Private family matters with other women to confide in. However, there are so some women, quarrels never give in, even if the husband left home will also gamble not to find him, so that other women have the opportunity to take advantage of.
Eight, the wife always makes her husband lose face in public and let him have revenge to vent his anger.
After marriage, women should not always think that their husbands are their own private property, they can criticize or evaluate him at will, many failed marriages prove that men have a strong rebellious mentality, when he is always subjected to his wife in public Humiliation, or always hear the words of praise for other men, will sprout a gambling or even broken rebellious psychology, or want to prove that he is not as bad as his wife, or want to prove that he is very manly, when he heard his wife was ambiguous with other men, he will also have the urge to cheat. So, to avoid igniting your husband’s jealousy, it’s better not to mention other men.
Nine, other women show a different or even very different demeanor from their wives in front of him.
After a long time of marriage, both sides usually no longer have passion for the other half, even the bed exercise will become more and more routine, every day to live the left hand touching the right hand, suddenly found a pure love is also very beautiful girl, the kind of The sexiness of the pure girl will definitely fascinate men to lose their way, forcing men to focus a lot of attention on her body, men for this new stimulation is not the slightest resistance. Therefore, if a wife wants to maintain this freshness in a man, she may want to change her image once in a while to make him feel that you are like a fan who needs to spend a lifetime to read.
Ten, the inflated or inferiority complex that develops when a man is promoted or disillusioned makes morality lose its way.
Men need to find their place in the work and social value, it seems that all the happiness and pain of men are linked to the good or bad state of work, once unemployed or disillusioned, it is inevitable that the mood will be down, if at this moment If you can not get the wife’s comfort and support, it is easy to make feelings away from the family. Similarly, if your husband gets a promotion and a raise, your wife is happy for him, but also hopes that your husband can turn the pressure into motivation to continue to progress. However, at this moment men are more prone to the problem of warmth and lust, so how to grasp a man’s emotional pulse really requires a woman’s super wisdom.