It’s always hard to tell what’s going on in love, and in real life, do you feel like you and your TA are constantly on and off, occasionally sweet and occasionally distant? If this is the case, then we must beware. ta is not to take you as a spare tire? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Don’t be happy about the ambiguity, maybe you’re just her spare tire
Spare tire The spare tire is a spare tire for the car, so if that wheel goes flat or has a problem, the spare tire can easily take its place in time so the car doesn’t break down in the middle. As the name implies, the “emotional spare tire” is to their feelings in the homecoming of more tires, like a backup or even more. Knowing that there is no possibility with that TA, knowing that TA does not love them, or to blindly treat TA good, this self-benefitting behavior, we pan called “spare tire”! The first thing is to clarify the premise of a spare tire, that is, both sides know that one of them likes the other, that is to say; you have more obviously expressed interest in a girl and she obviously knows, does not meet this premise is called crush (gender reversal also applies), then the emergence of these behaviors below, can be used as a reference for her to have you as a spare tire.
1. Physical contact that goes beyond friends’ initiative to have physical contact that goes beyond ordinary friends, such as “accidentally” hooking your arm, “accidentally” touching your face. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Occasionally ambiguous language occasionally says something very ambiguous, such as “I thought of you today eh” especially when she seems to be the most vulnerable, it seems to be from the heart The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
3. She probably won’t refuse any advances you make to her, such as inviting her to dinner, a movie, or a night out, and she probably won’t refuse, but she won’t give you any chance to take it further when you’re alone (she knows you like her, but she doesn’t want to take it further). She knows that you like her, but she does not want to go further, and will naturally be more or less guarded. For example, you were so close to getting on her shoulder that she “just happened” to run/jump forward), but even if you had succeeded, she wouldn’t have acknowledged afterwards that it meant anything.
4. The relationship suddenly goes cold When you feel like you’re feeling more and more like boyfriend and girlfriend, and it feels like you’re really close to making it work, and it seems like it’s a done deal, she’ll suddenly go cold on you, or suddenly come out with a ” She likes guys”.
5. Occasionally the relationship sends gifts probably must also send you some small things, do a little something for you, pay attention to must be “small”, but usually these small things and small things seem to be more personal, so it feels like very warm. The actual personal, so feel as if very warm, such as your birthday she will remember, and then send you a small thing, she just want to maintain a spare tire, so will not want to spend too much energy and money in the above. If you are a true friend, or interested in you also want to further, send you something will be thoughtful, must be useful or expensive, will not be the kind of food tasteless discarded chicken ribs.
6. used for free entertainment singing K, eating lunch, watching movies, listening to concerts, you just have to ask, “spare tire” will take care of everything for you, and he is never accept you with him “AA”, because he has to take care of everything for you. The actual “spare tire” is a person who has a lot of money and will give you gifts from time to time, even if you send more money. 7 is the best way to spend your time, because they all come with you. If you have a lunch date with a friend who is suddenly not available, just make a phone call and the “spare tire” will come out to keep you company. And once the friend is suddenly free to accompany you, you can also instantly get rid of that “spare tire”. Men are most afraid of becoming a spare tire, and they like the girl to stay as if the state, like but can not have is the most painful thing. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.