Today, whether it’s urban drama or social news, you can see the figure of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, and there are more and more topics arising from them. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Why are mother-in-laws and daughters-in-law not getting along? These five points speak for themselves
The first one: not understanding the truth of “filial piety but not obedience”
Many men seem to have the idea that there are no parents who are not right, that their parents gave birth to them and raised them, and that everything they do is for their own good, so even if there is something wrong with what their mother did, there is certainly nothing wrong with their hearts. The first thing you need to do is to take care of your own mother, in order to be filial to your parents, then your wife will put up with it. This will certainly cause the wife’s dissatisfaction, and in the long run, will even be disappointed in the marriage and want to escape from it.
This happens because some men don’t know the truth of “filial piety but not obedience”, and even if the old man misunderstood because he didn’t understand the young man, then the man shouldn’t follow. The reason for this is that some men do not know how to be filial but not obedient. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
No.2: Ask your wife to take care of herself like her own mother
In modern society, both men and women have to work to earn money to support the family, so naturally both men and women should do housework in order to reduce the burden. But many men are not married at home every day to be served by their own mothers, did not do housework, and there is no concept of having to do housework, after the wedding once asked him to do some housework, he felt: “My mother took care of me for decades, never let me do housework, it is true that the world is only good mother.” If the mother-in-law knows that her precious son is not happy about it, naturally she will also be dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law.
Marriage is supposed to be for two people, supporting each other along the way, and since they chose to get married and go out on their own, they should take responsibility. If you just keep asking your wife to take care of you like your own mother, then just don’t get married and go home and spend the rest of your life with your own mother.
Third: There are many things you can’t do in front of your parents
Some men think it’s a good “face” to call on their wives in front of their parents and relatives to show that they are the head of the family. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
And don’t argue with your wife in front of your parents, whether things are right or wrong, the elderly have a protective mentality, and when they see you arguing, they will more or less psychologically feel that what your daughter-in-law did was wrong. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
No. 4: Ask your wife to honor your parents, starting with yourself
As a daughter-in-law, there is no reason not to be filial to your in-laws, and similarly, as a husband, there is no reason not to be filial to your father-in-law and mother-in-law. So only if the husband is sincerely filial to his wife’s parents, he is qualified to ask his wife to treat your parents with the attitude of “old age as well as the old age of others”. The most important thing is to ask your parents to be more generous and to treat your wife with the attitude of “the youngest is the youngest”.
No. 5: Don’t be afraid to love your wife in front of your mother
Some men are afraid to get close to their wives in front of their mothers, partly because Chinese people are generally introverted, and partly because some mothers-in-law can’t see their sons treating their daughters-in-law well, and this kind of motherly love is extremely narrow, and she only uses the name of love to satisfy her own possessiveness. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In addition to this extreme example, loving your wife in front of your parents can also show that the couple has a good relationship and your parents naturally won’t worry about you having a bad time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and to provide them with the best possible service.
A man’s position in dealing with his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is important, and a smart man can please both his mother and take care of his wife’s emotions in life, although it burns the brain a bit, but it is definitely a necessary effort for a happy family.