Let’s say you’re dating a nice guy and even want to spend the rest of your life with him. But the other party is slow to make promises and seems to be in no hurry to do so. Does this mean that in fact he did not show his true side in front of you, he just spent every day with you, talking about your life, friends and family, and did not bother to mention his own. You may think he is a good listener, but in fact he probably just wants you and is not the one to spend the rest of his life with you and give you commitment.
Once he wants to walk away from the whole thing, you often say it’s very confusing, “What did I do wrong? What do I have to do to get him back?”
But it’s often not your fault alone, maybe you just met someone who didn’t want to commit to you, who didn’t want to promise you a future. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product that will be used in the future.
If all of the above apply to you. Then it’s likely you’ve met a “commitment-phobic” man, i.e., a guy who just wants to date you!
So I think I’ve probably answered both of these questions by this point:
Q1, why does he always won’t give you a commitment?
Q2, When is the best time to ask him to give me a commitment?
A2, now. It turns out that there is no such thing as “commitment phobia” in this world, and if there is, it’s because the person isn’t sure if you’re his future MRSRIGHT, or if you’re not even in his future blueprint.
Reasons why men are afraid of commitment
1, once a promise is made They have trouble making excuses for their mistakes.
2. He’s afraid you’ll get to know him too well because of it.
3, he’s worried that his unfaithfulness will be verified over time after he commits.
4, he will feel a certain amount of psychological pressure after the commitment.
Reasons why women are afraid of commitment
1, the previous relationship makes her haunted.
2, she doesn’t want to feel dependent on a man.
3, overcommitted and afraid of hurting too much when she loses.
But whether it’s a man or a woman, the fact that most people don’t want to commit to a future reflects their fear of taking responsibility in the world of relationships. However, there are still a few people who simply don’t want to make unnecessary commitments.