You ask 80 percent of women and they will all agree that women who are too strong will not find men. In other words, the soft point of a small woman is more attractive to men. Indeed, a woman’s softness and weakness is more likely to cause men’s desire to protect. But, over time? Is this still an advantage for women?
Men like small women
Here’s a quick overview of what a small woman is. What is a small woman. If a big woman refers to a woman who is tougher in character or financially and can survive completely without relying on men, then a small woman is the opposite of a big woman. The woman’s characteristic is weakness, she needs a man as the focus of her life, and treats him with the utmost tenderness, making sure he is comfortable.
As a man, getting along with a big woman can damage his face and self-esteem, and often times, big women are independent and have their own views on things, which men don’t really feel comfortable messing with if they don’t have enough substance. And small women are different, need to be dependent on men or, which greatly satisfies the psychology of men pity. On the other hand, Chinese culture for 5,000 years has appreciated the gentle and understanding woman, and over time, this has been called the standard for men to choose women.
In reality, we can also see that women who are apparently assertive and decisive are indeed not as popular with men as innocent and soft women.
What’s so great about small women?
Good understanding
Said above The characteristic of a small woman is tenderness, which makes a man’s heart very comfortable. In the outside of the angry, by the beauty of a gentle voice, will become calm and re-examine the matter. If it is a hard “this thing would have been so”, the man will be afraid to jump like thunder. This is also due to human nature, the gentle voice, always soothing, so that people feel, I am also someone who agrees. Only, this thing does need to be seen in a different light. In this way, it is possible to accept the original opinion that is different from your own. If one is out there doing something worth bragging about, the tenderness of the beauty is the icing on the cake. What better way to make a man feel good than to tell a gentle beauty about his triumphs and hear her laugh like a silver bell?
Satisfying a man’s desire for protection
Most men and The vast majority of women feel that a woman should be a virtuous helper to her man after marriage, nothing more than taking care of the backyard for him. For example, having and raising children, taking care of the elderly and men, and dealing with relatives. Women think, I was only supposed to do this. Men think, women should be behind me, accept my protection. So it’s not for nothing that soft women can get men to like them.
Giving up everything for a man
We often all say that women can give up anything for love. This is especially true for small women. Love is everything for a small woman, in order to make the man better, she can endure all the aggravation, just for a “I love you”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The little woman gives so much to the man, and also satisfies the man’s desire for protection and pity, that at first, the man loves the little woman very much.
When a man is willing to marry a woman back home, he is definitely very determined, perhaps very much in love with her, perhaps very much dependent on her, perhaps very much used to her. Marrying a wife for a man is not something that can be decided casually. However, time can wear away everything. The same food, even if you like it at first, will get bored of eating it every day. What if at that point, another dish is found that you wouldn’t mind trying?
The cheating thing has always been despised. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Some experts believe that a man cheats because he doesn’t get the intimacy he wants from a woman. This statement, if it were to sum up all the reasons for cheating, cannot help but be somewhat biased. But it does represent some of them.
Why do you say that? Not to mention that traditional Chinese culture believes that a woman’s lack of talent is virtue, in modern society, there are countless women who believe that it is not necessary to make themselves too good, just to find a good man. Why? This is a long-term meal ticket. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In terms of giving, such women do give their all for their families and men and are worthy of respect. However, in the couple relationship, they are not so qualified. The relationship between husband and wife, is about the sense of intimacy. This sense of intimacy, the wife and husband need to communicate more communication in the mind to produce the feeling of confidant. When the identity of the confidante and wife’s identity combined into one, does not make the man feel that this woman is a tear in his heart? For women, and this is the best, you are the closest to this man and this man’s heart.
If a woman is only concerned with taking care of her family and neglecting her man, neglecting the common language of the couple, the man’s requirements in this area are not met and will move outward. When this man is flirting with other women, and your response is so soft, it may give the man the illusion that this is not too much for me, and maybe he will think in disguise in his heart that I can go further.
A small woman’s weak personality determines that in the matter of cheating on a man, she will not be so decisive and decisive. The man tested the woman’s bottom line step after step. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Women, your weakness was the trait that attracted men to fall in love with you, but now, it has become the reason for your own pain, why?
Because we can attract men with tenderness and give a lot for the family, on the other hand, we also need to read more, to seek self-improvement from books and knowledge, only then she will not be eliminated from society, to take the initiative in the defense of marriage position. In some critical moments, we must also surrender our weakness, so that we become strong and decisive, so that we can better protect ourselves.
Little women’s weakness is both physical and psychological as a result of their dependence on men. However, everything has its advantages and disadvantages, in the weakness of our own into an unbearable situation, we also want to let ourselves grow as soon as possible, into a large woman who can protect themselves from harm. Don’t let our tenderness take us to our graves.