For those who have been with each other through a journey of life together, you are a person who means a lot to each other, and the TA may know you better than anyone else. The breakup is just a small episode in the chapter of the relationship, a small gap is not enough to affect the whole pace of life in a big way, you can continue to do a lot of things between you in fact.
1. It’s kinder to smile than to look away
Even if After the breakup, you completely disappear from each other’s lives and never have any chance or reason to cross paths again, which doesn’t stop you from giving each other a friendly sign of a simple smile or nod when you happen to meet on the road. The fact that the person is smiling will greatly reduce the awkwardness of the relationship with the stranger and make the awkward atmosphere suddenly and subtly resolved.
You can do the same with each other, just a simple gesture of gently raising the corners of your mouth and sending each other a friendly smile. It’s better to have one more friend than one more enemy, right?
2: left;”>If you start out in an office romance, you should be prepared to take responsibility for the consequences of the relationship when it is first established. The most problematic situation in an office relationship is dealing with an ex-boyfriend who has broken up and is still in the same office as if nothing happened.
A relationship is not a strong reason to get in the way of work. No matter what your situation is in real life, it’s important to remain professional in the workplace, to keep public and private affairs separate, and to do your best to collaborate on your career. This is not only a reflection of a dedicated work ethic, but also a powerful way to plug the gossip of others!
3. Get to know him better as a man
Some people are just like that, good enough to be friends, but never perfect together as lovers. Perhaps after talking about the relationship for enough intimacy only to find that the other person is not the ideal one, then break up is undoubtedly the most appropriate choice. It’s a relief for both people to take a step back and get back to being friends and out of an uncomfortable relationship.
After being friends again, he may open up to you about many things he couldn’t say when he was in a relationship, and knowing this will actually help you get to know the man better and be a useful reference for other relationships down the road.
4. What’s wrong with being friends when you have a mutual friend as a link?
Sometimes the obstacle to taking a step forward is not someone else, it is from your own inner reserve and hesitation. If you have mutual friends, if this group of friends is very understanding, take the initiative to help you clear up misunderstandings, trying desperately to restore your friendships. Then it might be a good idea to take advantage of the situation and continue to be friends with him to clear the air.
It’s better to call a group of friends and go out with a large group of people to “have fun” than to be left alone, right? The world is best when there are no annoying people and no misunderstandings.
5. Being friends with him means you’ve become generous and mature ……
5. indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Breaking up and then cutting it off from there is what you did as a kid, and as an adult with life experience, it’s perfectly fine to look at the twists and turns of the relationship path with a more peaceful eye.
More often than not, breakups are a way to give each other a new outlet in life, not a way to say goodbye after a deep hatred. It is not difficult to live together peacefully after a breakup and face each other with a forgiving and generous heart.