After a period of relatively long-lasting relationship, once suddenly lost, it is painful and torturous for many people, and the torture and pain can be so long that it is difficult to enter the next relationship. Even if you make an effort to enter a new relationship, you will still dwell on the nostalgia of the last relationship and be slow to forget it.
No one wants this, it’s already been broken up, there’s no point in thinking about it anymore, it’s useless except to add to the pain. But you can’t control yourself to think about it, obviously tell yourself not to think about it anymore, and finally you can’t help but think about that person. The more you think about it, the better you feel about the other person, even if you are in contact with someone better than the other person, you still feel inferior to the other person, and there will always be a comparison.
Making comparisons is a common mistake for many people, especially many people who have fallen out of love. The result of the comparison is predictable, are not as good as the former. In fact, they know that this comparison is meaningless, but they can’t help but want to compare. In fact, this is also an excuse, do not want to accept the excuse of others. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
You can’t let that stop you from moving on to the next relationship. The past, no matter how good it is, should be kept in the back of your mind for future memories.
In fact, the best way to forget someone is not to hate them, because the more you hate them, the longer you remember them. The other side is like air, the other side has forgotten you, you still painful to remember, there is no sense it. Nor is it a matter of starting a new relationship quickly. There is no way to start a new relationship in this situation, and even if you have to start a new relationship, you have to give yourself time to calm yourself down.
In fact, the best way to forget is to go through the memories. If you can’t live without memories, then you can forget in memories. Memories can be of many kinds, not just thinking of each other’s good and the good times they once had. I think this time of reminiscing is more of a reflection and growth. Think about why two people will come to today, is your bad or each other bad, clear this, memories will no longer be painful, but will be very easy. If you’re just in pain, it means you haven’t grown up to be in a relationship.
If you think about each other, don’t think about each other’s good points. Just think about each other’s shortcomings. This is one of the reasons why you broke up. Take a pen, if you can list each other at least ten shortcomings, the more the better, the more you think the more you feel unworthy of yourself, then there will be pain? Even if the pain, but only for a while, and not as painful as thinking about each other’s good. The more you think about each other’s flaws, the better you feel. The more you think about the other person’s flaws, the better you will feel. Tell yourself that it is TA’s loss to leave you and you will meet someone better.
Breakup, it’s no big deal, don’t make it sound like the end of your life. The breakup is not necessarily a bad thing, but rather to make their own, breakup is actually a stage of life introspection, like a machine running after a period of time need to overhaul, give yourself a “repair” time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Love is right, people are right, and if there is a mistake, it’s falling in love at the wrong time with a self that hasn’t grown up.