When you look around at your friends’ breakups, the reasons for falling in love are all different. But the reason for the breakup is surprisingly similar, that is, the personality does not fit. What kind of personality is considered appropriate? The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of the situation.
Complementary personalities last longer
Many people have different answers to this question. Different answers, but in general, it should be complementary personalities with similar triads.
Some people think that similar people are only good for playing around and being friends, and that complementary people are good for growing old. Because two people with similar personalities will know exactly what each other thinks, may have common interests, and can do a lot of things together that we all like, but after a while they will get aesthetic fatigue and recede in passion. And two people with complementary personalities carefully touch, understand, get to know each other, and then change and grind for each other. They can bring adult considerations to the process of attracting and being attracted into a synchronized tone after meeting openly and honestly, and the water comes to a head, slowly understanding what they want and having plans for the future.
The great thing about complementary people together is still the ability to bridge their shortcomings and caprices, like a binary star system in the heavens, surrounding each other and holding each other in place. The most important thing is that it is a good idea to have a good understanding of the relationship.
Complementary personalities need to have similar outlooks
but If two people who complement each other have different outlooks, irreconcilable conflicts are inevitable.
Two people with complementary personalities can be together for a long time: an extroverted and lively person and an introverted and quiet person go really well together and can have a laugh and a joke. The two people with different outlooks are a different matter: one feels that they should save for a rainy day and be careful with their money, the other feels that life is too short to be happy in time, and if no one is willing to convince and transform anyone, the conflict will intensify day by day, and who can be happy on both sides?
In fact, it doesn’t matter if the three views are correct or not, but they must be similar, otherwise, the two will disagree on how to handle things, and inevitably, arguments will arise, and at this point, if they don’t give in to each other or don’t handle it well, the relationship will probably collapse.
There are couples or couples who seem to us to be freaks of nature, but they love each other and fit in perfectly, all because they have similar outlooks. Some seemingly ordinary girls easily married into the gentry, and their appearance to throw them several streets and bent on flying to the branch to become a phoenix girl but repeatedly broken dreams of the gentry. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two people with complementary personalities and similar outlooks, when they encounter contradictions and arguments, will try to rub together in the same direction because of their similarities, and because in the process of rubbing together because of their complementary personalities, I personally think that this is the best way to fall in love. The best way to get a good relationship is to have a good relationship.