Some people say that women always have fantasies about love, always thinking that the other party is a prince on a white horse, while they are waiting for the prince’s princess, drama-like romance will also be staged around them, so the IQ of love is almost ” zero”. The first thing I want to tell you is that you can’t continue to be “retarded” after you get married.
Don’t expect to receive a gift from him on your birthday or anniversary, don’t expect him to come up with all kinds of romantic tricks to please you, don’t expect him to treat you like a “princess”, don’t expect him to treat you like a “goddess”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
You have to tell yourself that no love in the world can be “fresh” forever, and that a married relationship is realistic, so lower your fantasies about love and laugh quietly!
When you’re in love, you’re like two people in love, and you don’t want to be apart for a second, you’re each other’s shadow. The most soulful promise in love is: we’ll be together forever! However, after marriage, every day from morning to night, wide-eyed stare, you can still see what the pattern?
The grass is always greener, and living at “zero distance” can diminish the attraction of both parties, and if two people are so close that they can’t insert a pin, it’s not far from an explosion. Therefore, love, need to “rest”, need to “dormant period”, the two need not be inseparable, intimate, give each other a little free breathing time and space, occasionally apart apart, miss and attachment feelings will be born, when the reunion, in order to The first thing you need to do is to get together and rekindle the spark of love.
When you are in love, the other side is perfect, even the freckles on both sides of her nose are as beautiful as the stars scattered in the petals of a lily. But after the marriage, that scrambled to hold the coaxing must be married to the “Snow White”, after thousands of days and months of hard work, turned into “chaff”, “tofu dregs”, “yellow face”; “yellow face”; “yellow face”. The “prince charming” who cried and cried and twisted and had to marry, after thousands of days and months of exploitation, became a “thorn in the side”, “thorn in the flesh”, “thorn in the side” whose bad habits are hard to change and whose nature is hard to change. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The “bad habits” that both parties had gone to great lengths to hide, or the so-called “faults” that were tolerated when they were in love, gradually petered out after marriage. The actual “faults” are gradually exposed in the ordinary life after marriage, and are even highlighted and magnified. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
They are not only in love before marriage, they are also in love after marriage.
Two people who are in love always have endless things to say, from childhood to youth, from sports stars to TV anchors, from career planning to the world of people, from aunts to friends, from I love you to marry me. I love you to marry me. The actual fact is that there are so many things to talk about after marriage. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to find out everything about each other, and there’s really nothing to say. Even if there are new things, but also no longer willing to share with the pillow. The first thing you need to do is to get married, and how do you “talk” about love?
When exchanging ideas, such as making some family decisions, discuss them calmly. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
Love after marriage, more need to “talk”, but, to “talk” just right!