Dating has always been prevalent in the real world, and for older, unmarried people, dating is perhaps the best way to meet the opposite sex. It’s a learning curve, and it’s a difficult task to find your other half through a walk-through dating session. So how can you tell how good the other person is for you on a blind date, and what signals can predict a successful blind date?
Look at the body orientation and distance from you
No matter how the other person Ying smiles and speaks delicately, to know if they are attracted to you, please look at the body orientation of TA first. The first thing you need to do is to look at your feet in the opposite direction from you, or tuck them in properly, which means her heart is not yet in your hands.
If you are standing and talking, observe the distance between you and her. Generally speaking, within fifty centimeters, is the intimate distance. However, at this point and slow to jump to conclusions, and then look at her body language, is it defensive? For example, is it holding the arms? If not, she is basically not wary of you.
Look for punctuality
The first time you and the TA are late for a date, you have to wait. late and kept you waiting for a full hour. During the waiting period, she only contacted you via text message, and the content of the text message was quite boring. If after two glasses of water, the other party still does not show up, hurry up and text some perfunctory, and then just find an excuse to bail! The fact that the other party is deliberately late shows that she is not interested in you, that she does not respect you enough, and that this girl is a procrastinator and has no concept of time.
Does she hold her phone still
Always in the middle of a conversation non-stop answering the phone or texting. That kind of behavior can be called slacking, and is commonly found in the scene of a first encounter between a man and a woman like a blind date. Such an attitude shows her rudeness. Dating is a time to set aside chores and focus on spending time with each other. The above behavior proves that the woman is a self-centered person who doesn’t know enough to respect other people’s emotions.
Does she take the initiative to leave her contact information
After the date is over If the other party takes the initiative to say leave a number, it’s usually a play, which means she wants to move on with you. Of course, if you find the introducer said you two leave each other a contact, but the girl is not willing to give you a cell phone number, or just give you a twitter number, this situation will be noted, she did not see you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Is the guy happy to pay for it
In many blind dates in China, it is often the man who pays the bill. Of course it doesn’t necessarily mean that the man has to pay for the date, but if he only pays his own money or doesn’t even pay and leaves in a hurry, it means that he really doesn’t have a good feeling about you.
Look in the direction of the other party’s eyes
Eyes are the windows to the soul, and the eyes can’t be fooled. Start by asking her the simplest questions, what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like to eat. What you have to observe at this point is her line of sight. There is a theory of sight that the direction of the eyes is unconscious but specific when a person is producing the two emotions of like and dislike. So, to know her emotional baseline, remember the “like” and “dislike” eye direction. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a certain restaurant with you. Then observe the direction of her eyes, whether she belongs to the “like”, or “dislike”? You will know if she really wants to go out with you. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
So what are the dos and don’ts of dating?
1. Reduce the small movements when talking
Often when talking Doing some squirming and squirming? This definitely sends a signal in public: inner turmoil and extreme lack of confidence! You need to change this unseemly behavior. How about forcing yourself to hold something in your hand, such as a pillow in your arms, a magazine, a drink cup, etc., which can increase your psychological stability. Make people feel that you are calm and comfortable. If you really can’t control it, don’t do too much of anything. Let nature take its course, and let the other person know the most real you. Maybe he’ll think you’re real and straightforward.
2.Small physical touches leave a good impression
There’s another little trick to make people feel good about you. Physical touch enhances relationships and trust between people. When conversing with the opposite sex, you can intentionally create a little physical contact, such as touching the other person’s arm to remind them that a cart is passing by and to be careful. If he brings a group of friends and family, such as a sister or aunt, you may want to gently put your hand on the other person’s arm for about 2 seconds or so, this small action can make the other person secrete a happy command in the back of the head. It makes the other person inexplicably feel good about you when they think of you.
3. Don’t hang on to money and family
Avoid focusing too much on the financial and material aspects of each other, and pay proper attention to each other’s families, personalities, etc. Marriage is actually not a matter for two people, but for two families. If the person is unreliable, then the more money he has, the less you can enjoy.