When the years are calm and the love is stable, perhaps the friends around you will often ask: who chased who at the beginning? As the saying goes: “men chasing women across the mountain, women chasing men across the veil”. In fact, there is no shame in a girl taking the initiative to confess her love, and the following teaches the beauty 5 strokes to increase the success rate, and when you meet the boy of your choice, take action now!
1. The success of the confession is predetermined
Whether the location is a romantic restaurant or under a bridge, whether the token is a car rose or a text card, whether the means is subtle and twisted or straightforward, will not have much impact on the outcome of the confession, before his impression of you and the pavement you have made, is the success or not. The key to success.
In reality, we see that even if some men kneel down and beg, women may ignore them, and some men have candles and rose petals under their dormitories, and it is not uncommon for the other side to reject them; and if two people are happy with each other, they can hold hands and talk on the street for a few minutes, and then they can be private. As I said, the form of the confession is not important, but the preparation done beforehand is the most important.
2. Since you are timid, why not choose a place where no one is around
In fact, not all confessions have to be in the presence of people, and if the other party agrees, you will be embarrassed if you refuse. In contrast, since your heart only wants to say to him, why not find a place where no one is, quietly pour out your love, or really dare not, why not simply send a text message to him. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Confession is a serious matter
Friends around you may give you tips to confess your love when you are drunk, when people are more daring, and if the other party refuses, they can say they were confused; others say it is better to confess on “April Fool’s Day “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
First of all, both approaches are very unwise and can easily make the other side think that your confession was just a casual joke, or even give men the wrong impression that you are not serious about your feelings. The same goes for smart men who will effortlessly reject you: sorry, you were really drunk at the time! After that, no matter how much you explain, he uses this as a reason to make you look very passive.
A confession is a serious matter, and you can be indifferent in your heart, but you should at least present a very serious attitude.
4. There is no need to force him to say yes or no
The intention is more to express your love for him than to force him to say a yes or no.
The intention is more to express your love for him than to force him to say a go or stay. Even if he rejects you at first, you don’t have to be furious or even blackmail the other person, causing them great psychological pressure. If the two of you get into a standoff, it will in turn leave him no choice.
A smart woman will give a man plenty of time to think about it before the other person decides: you may not know me very well before, so you don’t have to rush to reply, if you can, why don’t we go out for a while and decide when you’ve thought it over.
A smart woman will hint everything to understand why she chose to fall in love with him, what about him fascinates her, and then speculate on his concerns from his tone of voice. The woman should try to remove the other person’s worries and doubts in the following days to make him feel that falling in love with her is a good thing to do.
In this way, the other party will naturally become disturbed and his attitude towards you will change. The whole situation, once again, is completely held by the woman.
5. Can a woman take the initiative to confess her love or not?
There are also some girls who are not afraid to confess, but are unwilling to do so.
They often hear people say that women can’t be too active, or they will spoil men and make them think you are humble.
In fact, we often say that women can not be too active, does not mean that women can not confess to men, boldly say their own ideas; but in the other side of the rejection, the woman also time and again chasing after, look at the man’s face to act, such behavior, will spoil the man, let him feel that you are low.
The reason why people express their love is because they want the other side to understand their heart and let him love you too. Since you can’t make him understand with your actions, why not express your heart and let the other side understand clearly?
The party that took the initiative to confess did not show how humble it was, and the party that accepted the confession had nothing to show for it. It’s not as hard as you think, really.