BFFs have infinite benefits, but the only drawback is that if you fall in love with the same man, it’s bound to be painful to kill each other. The only drawback is that if you fall in love with the same man, it is bound to be painful to kill each other. So some people say, “Fireproof and anti-buddy”. Of course, a lot of things, we may be thinking too much, but the reality is that there are also examples of bosom friends stealing husbands, or boyfriends. In order to prevent possible future tearing, we can prevent in advance, to avoid similar things happen. So here are six tips to show you how to prevent your BFF from stealing your man.
Don’t be too high-profile about your happiness
especially those who are still single
especially those who are still single in front of their girlfriends, you have to keep a low profile at all times, don’t flaunt your relationship, don’t flaunt your happiness. It is easy to cause envy of your girlfriends at first, but then, it will gradually turn into jealousy. It’s a thousand-year-old truth, and a major factor in the tragic triangle of love that has occurred for thousands of years. So, if you are happy, you can steal the happiness, do not think that only the happiness that the world knows is happiness.
Date as few “threesomes” as possible
Remember, you’re going on a date to enjoy everything in your two-person world with your boyfriend, whether it’s happy or sad, it’s just for the two of you, and you’re embarrassing him by bringing your best friend along. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Don’t give your husband/boyfriend and your BFF too many opportunities to spend time together (especially alone)
Don’t give your husband/boyfriend and your BFF too many opportunities to spend time together (especially alone)
Don’t let your husband/boyfriend go alone to help your BFF when she has problems
Whenever your bestie asks for help, you can’t do it, but your boyfriend can do it, and if not helping is a bit heavy-handed, then go with your boyfriend to help her. Don’t be foolish to give them the opportunity to create alone together. Feelings like this, sometimes it’s just a look.
Don’t mention each other too much in front of both parties
The former is To avoid your bestie unconsciously coveting your husband, the latter is to avoid your husband developing a crush on your bestie that goes beyond friendship. People like the best of the opposite sex, and being appreciated by the best of the opposite sex can satisfy a sense of self-worth and vanity, so people will consciously or unconsciously show their best side in front of the best of the opposite sex. If you often talk about how good each other in front of your husband and girlfriends, it is hard for them not to be curious about each other: how good a person he or she really is? This curiosity is often a potent aphrodisiac that promotes the feeling of “love”.
Don’t call your bestie for emotional problems too often
Sort of. You can ask your BFF to help you make a phone call or send a text, but don’t let your BFF call your boyfriend frequently, text him frequently, or even touch him alone. Many girlfriends are this time to be the warmest company for your boyfriend’s vulnerable period. More often than not, you have to learn to face your relationship problems on your own. “The two-person world cannot accommodate so many emotional mentors.