It is said that marriage is a seven-year itch, and it is inevitable to encounter some “extras” in the journey of marriage, how to make the marriage boat run normally in the big storm, to prevent extramarital love on the marriage of heavy damage. The marriage of the heavy damage, to see the following introduction it! These methods will certainly assist your marriage.
1. More intimate physical contact
While shopping When you’re in a traffic jam, help him slap his stiff thighs on the brakes instead of sitting in the passenger seat and complaining; kiss him on the cheek when you walk past him at home, instead of looking at yourself as if you’re in the middle of a movie. No one ……
Don’t ever think that these are the behaviors of only a young woman who first fell in love, this is what all men want their lovers to do, even if you are already The “old married couple”. Psychologists say these intimate little gestures express a woman’s dependence and concern for her man, inspire a man to be protective of his woman, and will make a man feel like you’ve grown tacitly acquainted before.
A recent U.S. psychological study also found that the more frequent intimate physical contact between a man and a woman, the more stable their relationship is. The most recent psychological study in the United States also found that the more often a man and woman are physically close to each other, the more stable their relationship is. Of course, you should also be reminded to “not get too close” and never stick to him regardless of the occasion.
2, Leave his phone alone
No more peeking at his phone while he’s in the shower. The most important thing is that after so many movies and TV shows, there really aren’t any more men stupid enough to leave evidence of their sexual escapades in their phones.
And psychologists say that this suspicion and the guilt that comes with peeking at a phone can stimulate cortisol production in a woman’s body, seriously affecting her mood and beauty.
3. Share fun things with him
He’s not your emotional garbage can, only to hear you complain incessantly about your job and your boss. If he had a choice, he’d rather listen to you talk about all the fun things you’ve come across today, even if it’s a funny repost on Facebook, and you’d never guess that the happy messages you bring to him will make him even more devoted to you than your oral sex skills.
The latest gender survey in the UK also confirms that women who are funny and cheerful are increasingly popular with men, and the number of men in the “pleasure society” has even caught up with them.
4. Praise him with words
You’re not the only one who likes to hear him praise how cute you are, even men want affirmation from others, especially lovers, and the energy you breathe into him with your words will ultimately benefit you yourself, because the happier he feels, the more he wants to bring you even more happiness.
So the next time he offers to cook your porridge, buy your favorite style of leather shoes, or snag the movie tickets with the best seats, praise him well.
5. Prepare little surprises
Forget Valentine’s Day. Prepare little surprises for him every now and then.
Of course, we’re not asking you to suddenly get his name tattooed on your body, or to get a boob job or nose job to suit him, or to secretly record a sex tape …… What we’re talking about here The surprise doesn’t have to be something he’ll remember for the rest of his life, but rather something that makes him feel like you really love him and are caring for him.
Leave him a breakfast at the table, buy him a better pair of glasses, leave him a private Facebook message when you’re away at work to tell him you miss him, etc.
6. Allow him to have his own friends
You have your bestie He doesn’t necessarily like some of your friends, and you don’t have to give up your friends’ dates to go to his “boring” parties with them.
Gender psychologists say that both men and women have friends they like that their lovers don’t like, and it’s out of their control, and as a woman, you have to learn to be independent, have your own social circle, and learn to be a partner to your lover. balance between the two.
7. Be considerate and give him a massage
He really wants
“Don’t you have a massage chair at home? I massage and not professional, why not go out together foot?” Perhaps you will have these thoughts above, but think about yourself, when you step on the heels of the day home, feet are sore and painful, if he gently help you massage the soles of the feet, even if the technique is not professional at all, you will not have the happiness of being pampered?
In fact, men need to feel taken care of, too. So don’t be shy about spending that little bit of time to give him a massage, and don’t worry about being professional enough. Of course, if you’re willing to put in a little more effort to become more professional, I’m sure he’ll love you even more.
Better yet, gender experts say that mutual massage between lovers is one of the best ways to increase intimacy and sexual sensitivity, bar none.
8. Give him some alone time
There must be times when he comes home from work and doesn’t want to talk about anything.
So don’t force him to talk to you, don’t keep asking him what he’s thinking, don’t make him eat more, don’t drag him to watch TV with you or even have sex with you, he’s really tired and doesn’t even have the energy or inclination to say one more word. The The most important thing he wants you to do at this time is to change the TV to his favorite channel, make a cup of his favorite hot tea, and then leave him the space to be alone for a while, and he will love you more after being alone.
And what do you do when he’s alone? Certainly not leave him alone at home and then go to a night out on your own to have fun, you can play games on your ipad, watch TV shows or paint or play the piano …… In short, there are so many things to do, as you like.
9. Don’t talk out of turn when you argue
Are you like
Are you like many women who, when they get into a fight with him, blurt out a lot of angry words, such as the common “let’s break up”, “go to your ex-girlfriend”, “see who’s good enough to go to”, etc.? ” and so on. While the latest research says that fighting often is better for keeping your relationship together, it’s important to fight sensibly and to be clear that the purpose of fighting is definitely not to break up, but to resolve conflicts, solve problems, and bring you closer together.
So make sure to always remind yourself when you fight that just because you’ve had a bad encounter doesn’t mean your relationship is bad.