Nowadays, many couples have all kinds of conflicts and quarrels every day, but they don’t know that life is a long road, and there are still long days ahead. In fact, it is a great achievement to be with your significant other until your golden wedding, how to love each other for life? The following are 6 valuable lessons that you can follow from now on, and it is no problem at all for you to be together until your golden wedding or even diamond wedding.
Some young couples are envious as they watch their elderly neighbors celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary and wish their own marriages were as beautiful as a gold or diamond wedding, but do they know that most couples who make it to gold and diamond weddings will have a way of getting along with their loved ones as human beings?
People who know how to love often know how to make love hopeful, they know that falling in love is a prelude to marriage, and they will avoid turning marriage into the grave of love. Therefore, whether newlyweds can make their marriage last long or not can actually be predicted eight or nine times out of ten from the time they fall in love.
1. Love each other.
Many women always complain that their husbands treat them much less sweetly after marriage than they did during their relationship, even to the point of no longer having sweet gestures or romantic surprises. In fact, the majority of men’s main focus after marriage will shift to their careers, shifting the focus from the romance and romance to the firewood and pots and pans, so the majority of couples enter marriage without passion. However, when they were young, they also struggled with their careers, but their love for each other was more about making each other feel comfortable before and after marriage.
2. Mutual respect.
Men’s view of lovers is that the prettier the better, the more romantic the ideal, while treating the real marriage partner is different, the majority of men like to marry a mediocre-looking girl as a wife, too beautiful is easy to be subtle rules to think about, easy to attract the right and wrong. This will make the wife very depressed, always feel that the husband before the marriage to their own is obedient, obedient, and after the wedding voice is loud, straight back. However, couples who are able to enter a golden wedding treat their loved ones with more respect, especially wives will be very traditional, taking their husbands and children and housekeeping for granted, not knowing that housework is actually the best way to exercise.
3. Be humble to each other.
A harmonious couple relationship is actually the result of mutual humility. After marriage, everything should not be too serious and too clear and too taken for granted, especially those non-principled chicken and egg issues, which are not worth the fuss or even the fuss. A family is the need for a leader, and in order to compete for leadership or family discourse, many newlyweds can not do mutual modesty, especially girls are hoping to take full control of the entire family. However, golden couples usually discuss everything, and when there is a disagreement, they will not force their own ideas, not to mention the thought of trying to reform each other by all means. Therefore, a peaceful mind is the key to a long and healthy life.
4. Be tolerant of each other.
In the materialistic age of modern society, which is no longer particularly concerned with moral norms and moral bottom lines, men and women can easily get confused if they are not careful, especially in the face of materialistic temptations, and sometimes inevitably do the wrong thing or even make mistakes, and then, if one side is unreasonable, things will become more and more complicated, or even become unmanageable and lead to the breakup of the marriage. In fact, many couples divorce over a trivial matter. The majority of misunderstandings can be resolved through communication, as long as they are not of principle.
5. Help each other.
Golden couples usually live in a very comfortable family atmosphere, both sides do not sulk, do not create psychological pressure to make each other uncomfortable, when the man is faced with fear of failure, faced with disappointment in his career, faced with extreme inner vulnerability, faced with life’s discouragement, the two can warm each other, encourage each other, help each other, and not just treat each other as The two of them are not just thinking of each other as the person lying next to them, but they are setting themselves up as each other’s life guards, as close friends who can help to get through the difficult times together, so that no amount of wind and rain can stop the tenacity of their lives.
6. To be with each other.
After all, even a beautiful woman will grow old, and only those who have a loving heart will always be beautiful. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. The most important thing is that you can’t be sure of what you’re doing.
This shows that not every couple can enjoy a happy golden wedding, but only those who can love, respect, humble, tolerate, help and support each other can live a long and healthy life and enjoy a happy golden or even diamond wedding.