Sometimes it feels like he’s good to you, and sometimes it feels like he doesn’t love you at all, and the cold violence that comes and goes is extremely damaging, and many girls say the most hurtful way to break up is cold violence, and girls are often physically and mentally exhausted after cold violence, and their self-confidence suffers greatly, so Cold violence is really terrible. Here we’ll talk about the eight stages of a two-person romance toward a breakup under cold violence, detailing how cold violence can destroy a relationship.
Stage 1: He’s suddenly very busy
He’s suddenly very busy when You’re still in the throes of a passionate love affair. Your reaction is: I need to behave / or why is he so busy. You restrain yourself from contacting him less frequently, and he doesn’t ignore you at all. He occasionally texts and calls you, but the mood is noticeably colder, and there are fewer hugs and kisses with you.
Phase 2: You start questioning
When phase 1 lasts When the first stage lasts for a while, you feel that you are not as passionate as before, finally you start to question him: why is it all like this lately? The first stage of the breakup is that you don’t feel as passionate as you used to, and you start to ask why you’re doing this.
Stage 3: You don’t reach out to him and he doesn’t reach out to you
When there are some signs of improvement in phase 2, the coldness between you may not be greater than phase 1, but you need to know that you can never go back. Then he will suddenly not take the initiative to contact you, this time, you send over the text message, he also back, you call over the phone, he also answer. But if it is not necessary, will not take the initiative to contact you, you will often be frantic: in the end what he is thinking? Is he not in love with me anymore? How can we be like this? This stage will make you very broken, you will ask friends around, will blame yourself, emotional ups and downs, the focus is all shifted to the relationship, confused but you do not want to break up.
Stage 4: You start to break up
This time Women usually say, “I can’t stand it anymore let’s break up,” but women who initiate a breakup usually want to get it back, not really break up. Usually, this time the use of cold violence will be very tangled to a: do not ah, or give me another chance. In short, to retain you, do not let you leave. This time your mood a little better, think the other party still care about you. Although it seems not to break up, but you still can not settle down.
Stage 5: De-escalation
This stage, because of the previous stage 4, they will treat you slightly better. You will feel the other person coming back, but you have to know that this is a feeling with too much apology and will not last long, very short.
Stage 6: When you start to believe that love is lost and found
Stage 7: You’ve lost your mind and completely lost yourself
When going through the first six stages, basically your person is already in a bad state of mind, with constantly recurring moods and even crying at the drop of a hat. Waiting for his message can not wait to cry, walking through the place where you once had good memories to drop tears. You are torn back and forth between breaking up and not breaking up, can’t sleep, can’t eat, but unfortunately he doesn’t know any of this, and you can only wait for yourself to slowly die.
Stage 8: You break up, he’s silent
Stage 7 The stage is very painful, yet it is the one that takes the longest, and many times it takes all kinds of scolding from friends and family around you to wake up to this final stage. Finally, you die you send a text message to say break up, the other side a response of silence. After a ground of chicken feathers, the other side finally broke up with you in a very disgusting way.